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Jump Start # 3783

Jump Start # 3783

 

Matthew 5:41 “And whoever shall force you to go one mile, go with him two.”

 

 

I recently preached on this passage that comes from the famous Sermon on the Mount. The statement is about being a servant. It calls for us to do the unexpected. But, in the times Jesus spoke it, how outrageous, radical and even offensive this must have sounded to those listening ears.

 

There was a law in Judea that was strictly enforced. A Roman soldier could compel a Jew to carry his pack, his shield, his spear, for one mile. One mile was the limit. History tells us that there were one mile markers outside of Jewish villages identifying how far the equipment of a Roman soldier could be carried. One mile.

 

Rome did that to harass, humiliate, annoy, irritate, bother and oppress the Jews. This was a regular reminder that the Jews were not an independent nation. They were oppressed and they were to serve their oppressors. If you had your arms full of boxes, a Roman soldier would enjoy forcing you to drop those boxes and carry his gear. Would your boxes still be there when you returned? The Roman didn’t care. They would see a Jew walking very fast, as if he was in a hurry, and they’d make that person carry the equipment for a mile. A protesting Jew could be beaten. Worse, he could be arrested for treason. You might be walking one way and a Roman soldier the opposite way, and he would make you carry his stuff the direction he was going. Your anger would build because of how these soldiers treated you and others. But, there was nothing you could do. The Romans could mock and make fun of you as you carried their stuff one mile. Many Jews would look carefully to see if any soldiers were in the area before they tried to make their journey. They would hide, not wanting to walk the mile with the soldier.

 

This was life for the Jews. And, now Jesus adds to this, if you are forced to go one mile, go two. No one went two miles. No one could make you go two miles. One mile is all that was required. One mile is what was expected and demanded. If a soldier caught you going the wrong direction and made you walk with him one mile, you are now two miles from where you started. With Jesus’ words, you would be four miles from where you started.

 

The interesting thing about this is that when a disciple got to the one mile marker, he’d keep walking. The soldier might tell him to stop, but the disciple would keep going. He would do this, not complaining. He would not gripe about Roman occupation. In fact, it would shock the soldier. He’d be telling you, that is enough. But, onward you’d keep walking. Walking with a smile. Walking way out of your way. You’d do this because that’s what Jesus did towards us. He always went out of the way for us.

 

Now some thoughts from this:

 

First, because I do not have to, is not a reason not to. This is a common thought about attendance. Someone will say, “Wednesday night is not in the Bible, so I don’t have to come.” The point of our passage is just that. You don’t have to walk a second mile. No one can make you walk a second mile. You do it by choice. You do it because you want to.

 

When we do only what we have to do, that becomes duty. That’s not the heart of a servant. When we only do things if we get paid, that’s called a job. That’s not the heart of a servant. But, when we do things that we do not have to do, and no one asks us to do them, now, we begin to understand a servant.

 

Second, there are plenty of one mile Christians. They will do their duty. I’ve even heard some pray, “Lord, we pray for those who it is our duty to pray for.” What about those it’s not our duty to pray for. What about praying for Russia’s Putin. We talk about him. We criticize him. We blame him. Have we ever prayed for him? Doing only what is expected and nothing more, sure sucks the air out of a congregation. Paul praised Philemon because he knew he would do even more than what Paul said. The Thessalonians were encouraged to excel still more.

 

Duty minded Christians seem to be in a hurry to get out of the church building. I’ve seen others, nearly an hour after services talking, some with Bibles opened, engaging and helping one another. Do they have to do that? That’s the point! Second mile people go beyond what they have to do.

 

Third, second mile Christians don’t wait to be asked. No one would ask a Jew to go two miles. That would never happen. A Roman soldier could not do that. Going the second mile in forgiveness. Going the second mile in fellowship. Going the second mile like the captured servant girl did when she told Naaman’s wife about a prophet in Israel who could heal his leprosy. Going the second mile like Paul did when he gave Mark a second chance. Earlier, Paul got into an argument not wanting to bring Mark. But, later, Paul declared that Mark was useful for him. A second mile. A second mile like David inviting Saul’s grandson to sit at his table.

 

Matthew five, where our passage comes from, ends with the question, “What do you do more than others?” Back then, anyone could walk one mile. They had to if a Roman soldier demanded it. But, who goes the second mile? Who goes out of his way?

 

Second mile Christians…I know some of them. They are amazing.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 3782

Jump Start # 3782

 

Psalms 101:2 “I will give heed to the blameless way. When will You come to me? I will walk within my house in the integrity of my heart.”

 

Our verse today, one of David’s many Psalms, puts two important concepts on the table for us. The first one, most obvious, is integrity. Honesty. Truthfulness. One of the greatest deceptions of our times is what we do to ourselves. We deceive ourselves. We tell others we are ok, when we are not. This is true financially. This is true when it comes to our health. This is true with our feelings toward our spouse. This is true spiritually. We hate to admit that we need help. It seems like a sign of failure on our part.

 

I recently had a foot problem. The problem was it hurt. Being married to a nurse can be wonderful and it can also mean you are not getting out of this until you go to the doctor. So, off I went. Got some medicine and within a day it was so much better. Knowing myself, I would probably had waited another week or so. I already was starting to limb a little. My way, I’d likely be on the floor crawling. Just ask for help.

 

But, the other wonderful concept this passage brings to us is the location of the integrity. David says, “I will walk within my house in the integrity of my heart.” My house. Not, God’s house. Not your house. My house. David hadn’t always done this. His adultery with Bathsheba began when he was on the rooftop of his house. My house, David says. Then, David had messengers bring Bathsheba to his house. The sin took place in his house. David wasn’t very good in his house.

 

The importance of my house. Let’s give that some thought:

 

First, we are very careful about what we say when we are in public and around others. We are careful not to gossip. We don’t talk about others in a negative way. We are respectful. We listen. We take our turn in conversations. But, what happens when we get home? Some of the meanest things said are said to the people we love the most. We can snap, be critical, judgmental, demanding, shouting all while we are in our house. We’d never do that in a store. We’d never do that in the church building. But, at home, our house, where people see us the most and know us the best, we drop all the niceness and can become a real grouch.

 

I will walk within my house in the integrity of my heart.

 

Second, our greatest field of evangelism is within my house. Noah a preacher of righteousness, only saved his family. But, it was his family that was saved. Day in and day out, good days and bad days, special days, and plain ordinary days, our family sees us, hears us, and knows us. We want our children to be honest with us, so we must be honest with them. We want them to tell the truth, so we must tell the truth. And, through the years, your family ought to see that you are serious about Jesus. They see you in worship and they see you at home. They know what shows you watch. They hear the words that come out of your mouth. There ought to be a consistency. You in the church building ought to be the same as you at home. It’s here at home where love, acceptance, grace and forgiveness are first learned. And, through you, your children will see Jesus.

 

I will walk within my house in the integrity of my heart.

 

Third, it is that inconsistent manner of life that will cause some to question your faith and even challenge you as a hypocrite. You are one thing in the public, but a different person at home. And, that kills faith faster than any false doctrine can. Integrity in paying your taxes. Integrity when talking on the phone. Integrity when posting on social media. Integrity when dealing with money and selling things. How does the car run, someone asks who is interested in buying yours? Integrity. Is there anything wrong with the house, you are asked from someone who wants to buy it. Integrity. It may kill a sell. You may not make as much money in a deal, but you walk with a whole heart, knowing that you were honest.

 

One must wonder, if a person cannot be honest at home, can they be honest anywhere? The lack of integrity at home is something that may keep a man from serving as a deacon or shepherd in God’s church. His family knows.

 

I will walk within my house in the integrity of my heart.

 

And, if I can’t walk with integrity among my family, how will I ever be honest with my God? God who knows all. God who sees all. God who knows my motives. God who knows my whole story. I can convince myself that I am ok, when I am really not.

 

I’m glad I listened to my wife. The Lord knows I really need her. I’d be a mess without her. And, my foot feels great.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 3781

Jump Start # 3781

 

Acts 8:2 “Some devout men buried Stephen, and made loud lamentation over him.”

 

What a week last week was. On Monday, gospel preacher Leon Goff passed away. I loved Leon. On Friday, in the same week, gospel preacher  John McPherson passed away. I knew them both. I had spent wonderful time with both of them. And, in one week, both passed on to the eternal reward that they had so often taught about. Both were great preachers. Both had done incredible good for the kingdom. Both were exceptionally kind in spirit and passionate about God’s word. Both will be greatly missed.

 

Twenty years ago this month I wrote an article for Biblical Insights entitled, “When the Preacher Dies.” Something I rarely do in Jump Starts, I am going to reprint that article here.

 

 When the Preacher Dies

 

“In the past few months I have heard of the death of several gospel preachers. I know of a few other preachers that are battling very serious health issues. Preachers die. We all understand that. The Bible teaches that it is ‘appointed unto man once to die’ (Heb 9:27). That includes preachers. Hearing of many preachers passing away in a short period of time has made me think about “When a preacher dies.”

 

In some ways the death of a gospel preacher is the same as the death of any Christian. A husband, father, grandfather will be dearly missed by his family. Friends will miss his laughter. The congregation will miss a helping hand. This is true when any Christian dies. Heaven gains but earth loses when a Christian dies.

 

The death of a preacher has a deeper effect upon the congregation because of the role he filled. In many, many congregations the relationship between the preacher and the congregation is warm, close and very healthy. The preacher has been to the hospital when there was a sickness. The preacher is the one who married many of the couples in the congregation. He is the one that has baptized so many in the congregation. He is the one who preached the funerals for many family members. He has worked with elders in trying to develop teachers. He has taught Bible classes nearly every quarter of every year. He is the leading force to challenge and encourage the congregation through his preaching. He has counseled. He has been in homes. He has taught Bible classes publicly and privately for years. He has been out many evenings teaching people about Jesus Christ. Sometimes we don’t realize how many times in our lives the preacher has been there. He is a constant, steady voice every week.

 

When the preacher dies, it affects us. Consider a few thoughts:

 

Help the preacher’s family: As hard as it may be for the congregation not to see the preacher in the pulpit, it will be especially hard for his family. Because of economics, jobs, and schools, the family of the preacher often must continue to attend where he preached every week. That will be hard. Some preachers struggle financially. Some have little or no life insurance. The congregation ought to keep that in mind during the stressful time of his death.

 

Be kind to the next preacher. Sooner or later, another preacher will take the place of the one who passed away. Many may not be ready for another preacher. The new preacher will be different in style, personality, and attitude than the former preacher. Don’t compare. It is hard enough to fill the shoes of someone who was so loved and then died. He will do things differently. Give the new preacher a chance. Let him grow on you. Encourage him as he presents the word of God.

 

Be patient in removing the former preacher’s things. Each preacher has his office the way he likes it. There are many personal touches. There are books, articles, pictures, collectables, file cabinets and all the things that help a preacher to study. The grieving family many not know what to do with all the books and things. Don’t rush them to get the things out. Help them as they go through the difficult task of cleaning out his office. Encourage them not to throw away sermons, books and class materials. Younger preachers could be helped by those things. There is no hurry to “get rid” of those wonderful tools. Let the family have time to think about what they want to do.

 

There are so many tears when a preacher dies. I hope these thoughts will help those who are experiencing this and will enlighten the rest of us who haven’t thought much about this.”

Biblical Insights (Vol 5, no. 3, March, 2005).

 

 

I am thankful for such wonderful good servants in the Lord like Leon and John were. There will be many in Heaven because of the great work they did in showing the life of Jesus. Bless their families. Those of us that knew them are better because of that. The Lord allows amazing intersections in the lives of others that help us in so many ways.

 

We all journey to be with our Lord one day. May the seeds we plant today help others who come along after us. I am thankful that our journey never ends. There is no final page to our life’s story. We shall live on and on.

 

Devout men made loud lamentations over Stephen. We lift up our voices in thankfulness to our Lord for such godly men as Leon and John.

 

Thank you, Lord.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 3780

Jump Start # 3780

Matthew 27:50 “And Jesus cried out again with a loud voice, and yielded up His spirit.”

 

There is a line in the hymn, “My eyes have seen Your glory,” that really caught my attention the other day when we were singing it in worship. It’s a beautiful hymn. In the second verse, “In my heart I crumbled when I watched you die,” has so much meaning. I thought of that from the standpoint of the few who stood at a distance at the cross. They saw the bloodied and beaten Jesus being lifted up. The tortuous image must have made them look away, but they couldn’t keep from looking. Somehow Jesus would get out of this, they must have thought. He always had before. Rocks had been picked up to be thrown at Him, yet He got away from that. An angry crowd pushed Him to a cliff to shove Him over, but He got away. He always got away. He was the Lord.

 

And, as the moments slipped away, surely He’ll come off the cross. He has to come off the cross. The Romans can’t win. These unbelieving Jews can’t win. He’ll show them. He’ll come off the cross and everything will be ok. But, as the minutes passed, He was getting weaker. Nothing was happening. He cries out, “It is finished,” and then He utters, “Father, into Your hands I commit My spirit.” His head drops to His chest. His eyes close. There is no movement. We intently stare at His chest, hoping to see it expand with another breath. The chest doesn’t move. There is a stillness. We step closer and we realize that He has died. Jesus has really died. A soldier thrust a spear upward into His side. Blood and water come out. The body didn’t move. He was dead.

 

At that moment, we are filled with confusion, fear and doubt. What will happen now? He was so good. He always helped others. Why? Why did they have to kill Him? What He said was so wonderful. He made us feel loved and put things in our hearts that were so true. We want to do something, but what can we do? We begin to feel ashamed for not standing up for Him. Maybe there would have been a different outcome.

 

The crowd stands in silence. Jesus has died. How could this be. And, now the tears begin flowing down our cheeks. We walk with the rest of the crowd away from the cross. We feel so empty and numb. We keep looking back, hoping something will happen. We just can’t believe all of this. He has really died. The only place we know to go to is home, but we don’t feel like going there. We don’t feel like eating. We don’t feel like talking. We just can’t believe that Jesus has died. Why didn’t the Father save Him? All of this was so good and right. Is it over? Who will lead us now? All the apostles feel lost. No one seems to know what to do.

 

We don’t feel like going back to the way things were before we met Jesus. We don’t want to do anything. We keep wondering if all of this is a bad dream. He can’t be dead, could He.

 

Such must have been “the crumbled heart” feeling of those few who saw Jesus die. You and I have the complete story of the cross. We understand the reasons why He had to die. We know what happens in a few days. We know Jesus as the resurrected Savior. But for those believers who watched Him die, what a different experience it was for them.

 

Some thoughts for us:

 

First, Jesus died. He really died. We understand this Biblically and factually, but putting yourself there at the cross, would have been something hard to fathom. As we focus upon the Lord’s Supper each week, let’s not forget that our Lord died. We celebrate the resurrection, but let us not forget the sorrow of His death. I have seen some dear, dear people take their last breath. I know the emptiness at looking at a lifeless body and hoping that there would be one more breath.

 

Second, we can think that those early believers were simple and naïve in their thinking about Jesus. The Lord had said several times that He was going to die and be raised. We read those passages with certainty and that is because we are on this side of the story. They were on the other side of the story and it was hard to put together everything that Jesus had said. Things were so good, it’s hard to imagine that it would ever end, but it did.

 

Third, and, to think He did all of this for you. He did all of this for me. Jesus cared so much for you that He gave His life. The greatest sacrifice of all. He died so we could live. What greater motivation to walk with the Lord than seeing by faith His death. How quickly we would admit that we don’t deserve His death. How easily we would confess that we are not that important. But to Jesus you are. Your life was worth His death.

 

My heart crumbled when I watched you die…

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 3779

Jump Start # 3779

 

Proverbs 28:11 “The rich man is wise in his own eyes, but the poor who has understanding sees through him.”

 

I saw three recent statistics about football players in the NFL that was interesting. The average career for a football player in the NFL is 3.5 years. That’s not very long. The average salary for an NFL player is 2.8 million a year. And, most shocking, the majority of NFL players, retire broke. You’d think with sign on bonuses, and six to eight million dollars through those 3.5 years, most football players would be set. They aren’t.

 

The study I read went on to say that the majority of football players never understood nor were taught about money. Most expected to play more than 3.5 years. And, the report declared that the majority had only one skill set, playing football. It’s all they have done since they were a kid. All through high school, and then college, it’s only been football. Most burned through the money buying expensive cars and large homes and not anticipating what life would be like after football. Careers over, broke, and not having any marketable skills, many find themselves in low paying jobs. Their dreams became a nightmare.

 

The book of Proverbs, where our passage is taken from, has much to say about money, riches, wealth, and  the attitude we need to have towards those things. Many are uncomfortable talking about money in the church building. Some go so far as to say such topics do not belong in church. However, Jesus said more about money than He did Heaven. His parables are laced with contrasts between rich and poor. And, like the broke NFL football players, many of us have never been taught about money.

 

Budgeting and money management ought to be a concern for today’s shepherds. How we handle the money in the church is as important as how we handle our personal finances. Money issues are the leading causes of divorce these days. In preparing young couples for marriage, lessons about money are a must. Without careful teaching and planning, many are on the trajectory of being future benevolent cases for the congregation. Wise teaching can help us in this area.

 

Here are some things I see:

 

First, the past generation never talked much about money. What was in the will and who got what was a secret that was not revealed until a death. It is not uncommon for a husband and wife to have different backgrounds and views about money. Some want to save every nickel. Others, want to spend a dime when they only have a nickel. And, without a plan and a budget, couples race into retirement realizing that they can’t retire or worse, they become a burden to the church because they never handled money well.

 

Second, among preachers, this is a real disaster. The horror stories are unbelievable. I’ve known preachers who died broke. They left their family destitute. Others have the grand idea of preaching until they die. But, what if health won’t allow that. Or, worse, what if brethren won’t allow that. Then what? Shepherds and preachers ought to have conversations on this topic. Amounts ought to be put away for retirement. I heard of a congregation in Texas that has invited older, retired preachers to come and be a part of their fellowship. In the process, they pledge to take care of those old preachers as long as they live, whether they preach or not. What a wonderful blessing and payback to honor those who have dedicated their lives to teaching God’s word.

 

Third, we must not be embarrassed to take such topics to the pulpit nor have classes on this. This is not only helpful and healthy, it can prevent future problems. Young people need to be taught about giving. We assume they know. They don’t. How much ought one to give? What happens when the month is longer than the paycheck? Establishing emergency funds, for both a congregation and teaching people to have their own helps when the storm clouds of troubles roll in.

 

Teaching generosity goes along with this. God treats us better than we deserve. And, as God’s people we must learn to be generous. That is a spirit that will open doors and shows people that you care.

 

Much of this begins in the home. Don’t just give your child a dollar to put in the collection plate. That doesn’t teach him anything. And, when grandma gives your child $20 for his birthday, don’t go out and buy something that costs $25. That doesn’t teach anything. Have three jars: Save, Give, Spend. Teach them to fill those jars. Patience and working up for something that is expensive is a good character quality that will help them in life.

 

There are wonderful books on this topic. Sit down with someone in the congregation that has done well financially and talk with them about how they got there. Learn and understand the principles of finance.

 

Retired broke football players. Not a good place to be.

 

Roger