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Jump Start # 2629

Jump Start # 2629

Proverbs 17:17 “A friend loves at all times, And a brother is born for adversity.”

A dear friend dropped by the other day. I haven’t seen him in a while and boy it was refreshing to my spirit to see his smile and hear of the good things that he is doing. Friends are like that. A person is blessed to have friends in his life. There are all kinds of friends. We have them from our school days. Some have kept in touch with grade school and high school friends for decades. College roommates. Neighbors. Co-workers. Some have moved on to other jobs, but you keep in touch. A lot of hours have been spent with these people. Many of the famous bands from the sixties originated as school friends who started playing together in basements and garages. Mother Teresa said that loneliness is the modern day leprosy. God understood that it was not good for man to be alone. When Elijah was hiding in the cave from Jezebel, his thoughts went dark. When alone, things seem the worst. Nothing beats a good friend.

Many of us have that, but what is the best of all, is when your dear friend is a Christian. Now, you have the greatest blessing of all. A bond that is thick, true and wrapped in the Lord Jesus. This is something that we need to get our young people to appreciate. There will be many people in and out of their lives, but hang on to those spiritual giants. I believe God gives them to us for a reason. They can make a difference eternally for us.

Consider a few thoughts:

With a true Christian friend, there is a common understanding among us. We both stand upon the word of God and we both want to go to Heaven more than anything else. There are things we know and we can talk about freely that friends of the world would never understand. Our love for worship, our desire to see the kingdom grow, our frustration with the world, and our need to do more are conversations that happen over and over with dear Christian friends. We offer suggests on how to improve things. We look at passages and share ideas with each other. There is such a love that cannot be found anywhere else and with anyone else.

With a true Christian friend, you know his words are true and helpful. Even when they sting, you know that he comes from a heart that loves and is built upon the Scriptures. He’s going to remind you of things that you know the Scriptures teach. His words are sound. His way is gentle. He walks with the Savior and that shows. We need people in our lives that will tell us the truth, not what we want to hear. We need Biblical honesty and to get there, we need people who know God’s word and know us. The world tells you to be happy, no matter what it takes. True Christian friends will tell you to be holy and to honor God, no matter what. Their words may be painful, but they will keep us next to the Savior. We need that.

With a true Christian friend, you can be honest with. There is no fear of something being said or done that is out of line. There is no concern of things being repeated. They love you for who you are. They have been with you at weddings and funerals. They have sat with you in surgery waiting rooms and have listened to you pour your heart out to them over the phone. You have laughed with them and they have seen you cry. You have worshipped together, eaten together and been in each other’s homes. Even though you may be miles or even states apart, there is a bond that is strong and enduring. Their friendship encourages you. Their relationship brings out the best in you. They want to be like you and you want to be like them. It is a blessing to have dear Christian friends.

With a true Christian friend, there comes a time when one must leave the other and leave this place. The dying actor Gary Cooper told his famous friend Ernest Hemingway, “I’m going to beat you to the barn,” referring to his death. Just two months later, Hemingway took his life. With Christians, it’s different. We know that we will see each other again. We know what a blessing it is to leave this place in the arms of Jesus.

There is a wonderful YouTube video of two musicians, Carl Perkins and Paul McCartney. McCartney, one of the Beatles, is one of the greatest song writers and musicians of all time. He admired and was heavily influenced in his earlier years by Carl Perkins. Perkins, was overwhelmed that years later McCartney asked him for some help on one of his songs. They met on the Caribbean island of Montserrat, where there was a world class recording studio. The night before Perkins was to leave, he wrote a song for Paul, “My old friend.” The chorus reads,

“My old friend,
thanks for inviting me in.
My old friend,
may this goodbye never mean the end.
If we never meet again this side of life,
in a little while over yonder, where it’s peace and quiet,
My old friend,
won’t you think about me, every now and then…
and I’ll think about you,
my old friend.”

And, to those wonderful words, I can add names. Old friends that have helped me. Old friends that have made a difference. Old friends that are so dear to me.

“I’ll think about you,
my old friend.”

Roger

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Jump Start # 2628

Jump Start # 2628

Psalms 33:12 “Blessed is the nation whose God is the Lord, The people whom He has chosen for His own inheritance”

NOTE: Tomorrow is the celebration of our country’s independence and birth. There will be no Jump Start tomorrow.

 

Things are being torn apart in our country. Tension, anger, violence, destruction, threats and accusations are flying off the charts. Blood is boiling and statures are falling. History is being restructured and rewritten. The fear of being labeled racist, has caused people to look at product names, school mascots, and operating policies. Open letters have been sent demanding change. Charges of racism is being pointed at people simply because they do not get on the band wagon of everyone else. And, all of this has impacted brethren, and not in a good way.

Some thoughts, especially at a time of national independence.

First, Satan loves to divide people. He wants us to take our attention off the real problem and that is him. He will use issues and people to get folks upset, divided, and angry with one another. Our country has a history, just as you and I do. And, that history isn’t always good. Slavery was a part of this country. Slavery was a part of Biblical history, especially Israel. Slavery oppresses people and allows the mighty to control the weak. The principles of the Gospels end slavery. Understanding that we are all from one blood, created in the image of God and should treat others as we would like to be treated drives out that spirit to own and control others. There were many mistakes, sins, corruption and evil in the history of all countries. Our verse today speaks of a nation whose God is the Lord. In many ways, most ways, this country has left that understanding by policies of it’s leaders.

Second, demanding change and forcing people to compel to change doesn’t look very different than slavery itself. Slaves were forced to hard labor. They were forced without their consent, input or discussion. Force and fear were the driving forces. Force and fear are being used now to demand change. That is never the proper way, nor the godly way. Bring things to the table. Present evidence. Do your homework. Discuss. Propose optional changes and improvements. Do things legally. Do things through open discussion. When nations push each other, wars break out. When neighbors push each other, fights break out. Two wrongs never make a right. Vandalism, violence, destruction of property, hatred will never lead to the right changes. And, brethren who get caught up in such things need to remember who they are. We are citizens of Heaven, first and foremost. Our founding fathers built in a system to allow protests. Any government, or even church, can lose sight of what it is about and oppress people and become wrong. Calling things out often brings things to the attention that was neglected, overlooked and put on the back burner.

In John 8, the angry Pharisees demanded Jesus to take a stand. They brought to Him, in the temple, a woman who was dragged from the arms of another man in the midst of sexual sin. They demanded a response from the Lord. Stone her or not? Jesus saw through their evil intentions. This woman was being used to get what they really wanted, proof that Jesus was not the Messiah. They didn’t care about her. They didn’t care what happened to her. The very fact that she was caught in the act of adultery certainly implies that they knew what was going on. This was a set up. This was a trap. They used her to try to get Him. They were not interested in discussion. They didn’t care about rules. Why bring an unclean person into the temple? They didn’t care about how unfair this was. If she was caught, where was the man? One of them? And, rather than being pushed into a corner, the Lord defused the hostile situation by allowing her to be stoned. If you are without sin, throw a stone. Would they do that right there in the temple? Would they do that without a formal legal trial? So many things wrong. The mob wasn’t thinking. And, how many parallels to the tense situation in our country today. Anger, threats and demands never accomplish anything positive.

Third, it is easy to become what one is opposing. In fighting racism, some have become racists themselves. They have swung so far the other way that they have become what they oppose. Inconsistences is the death of most arguments. It’s always easier to point the finger at others and find their faults than it is to look in the mirror at our own hearts. The answers to the countries problems begin with self and in our homes. From there, it extends to our congregations. Has there been prejudice and racism in the church? Yes. Is there still? In some places, yes. Do we gut the whole system and come up with a better plan? You can’t do that with God’s pattern. We begin with self. We begin with attitudes. We begin with the way we connect and fellowship others. We begin with our love for others. We begin with where God wants us to be.

Fourth, using a broad brush of generalities fails. There are always exceptions. Those exceptions kills the arguments. Not everyone in the south is racist. Not everyone in the confederacy was a racist. Study history. Some were fighting for the rights of the state over the power of the national government. When we lump groups of people together and make assumptions that they all believe a certain way, you will find exceptions. That destroys what you have just said. That weakens your point. That unfairly accuses innocent people of something that they do not believe in. Broad generalities lump a few bad apples with those who are doing right.

Fifth, somewhere we got the notion that if you do something that I do not like, then you have to stop. We pressure others to change because what they are doing bothers us. It’s one thing if someone is forcing me to do wrong. I need to stop and get away from that situation. But why should you change if I am bothered? It seems very selfish for me to say, ‘you must stop what you are doing because I do not like it.’ There are a lot of things that bothers me. I go to a ballgame and there are people loud, obnoxious and heavily drinking alcohol. That bothers me. I can say something and probably get punched in the nose. I can leave. I can refuse to go. Or, I can not let what they are doing bother me. There are shows on TV that bothers me. I don’t watch them. There are proper channels to voice complaints, write letters, or express my disagreement. But pressuring someone to change, because I do not like something is no better than that person pressuring me because I’m not doing what he is. I know the radical spirit. It rises up in me once in a while. I was part of a high school sit-in where the students sat in the hallway and refused to go to classes. That ended quickly when the police showed up. I have walked out of movies. I left a college choir performance because I didn’t agree with some of the songs they were singing. I know what it’s like to be bothered and upset about things that I didn’t agree. But demanding others change because of me, smells of arrogant selfishness in my book. There is a guy in the neighborhood that doesn’t mow his yard well. That bothers me. Sometimes my wife does things that bothers me. I know I do many things that bothers her. The only way to not be bothered, is to be by yourself. We will be bothered. Just think about worship on a Sunday morning. Some are bothered about the temperature of the building. It’s never the right temp for everyone. Some are freezing and others are burning up. Most places now have the thermostat under lock and key. Why? So people wouldn’t change it to suit them. The selection of songs bothers some. The sermon topic bothers some. The length of the sermon bothers some. The way the announcements are given bothers some. Now, with social distancing, everyone is bothered. You get bothered by the way some drive. It’s amazing to me that some even passed the driving test. The weather bothers us. The bugs bug us. Crowds bothers us. Prices bothers us. After awhile, we realize, that’s life. I can go through it always bothered, or I can make sure the outside doesn’t bother my insides. Does everyone have to change because I’m offended? No. You can’t legislate morals. It won’t work.

Finally, what’s the answer to all of this? Jesus. It has always been, Jesus. Through Jesus, we find the path that we ought to travel on. Through Jesus, we learn how to conduct ourselves. Through Jesus, we put more attention upon where we are, than where the other guy is at. And, until we embrace Jesus, racism, hatred, violence will continue. As the country pulls father away from the Lord, the problems will multiply. Among the people of God, grace, forgiveness, and love must be the banner under which we can unite and be one. Has there been mistakes? Yes. Have we had to change our thinking? Yes. Are we perfect? No. Can we do better? Always. But more than the “we” talk, it is better to look at self. Can I do better? Yes. Have I made mistakes? Yes. Have I learned anything to make things better? Yes.

Independence—it is a right, a blessing, a privilege and an honor. In many places, even today, speaking against others, especially those in charge, would lead to a swift and violent death. Oppressed people want to be free. Free people need to do what they can to make things right and better for all.

Roger

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Jump Start # 2627

Jump Start # 2627

Psalms 23:1 “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want.”

With those simple nine opening words, comes the most beloved, memorized and cherished of all the Psalms. The Lord is my shepherd, describes the activity of God and the personal relationship the Lord had with the writer, David. Indeed, God is the Lord of Heaven and Earth. He was the God of the nation Israel. But none of those things mattered if He was not the God and shepherd of David personally.

And, the same is true for us. The congregation can be connected, engaged and faithfully following the Lord, but am I? Am I along for the ride or is the Lord my shepherd as well? When Thomas saw the resurrected Jesus, he declared “My Lord and My God,” which literally means, “The Lord of me,” and “The God of me.”

The Lord is my shepherd. What should that mean to you personally? What does that look like?

First, from our perspective it means we follow the Lord. We obey the Lord. We may not understand why we have to forgive, but that is what the Lord wants us to do. It means to trust the Lord. When we pull back, argue and fuss with what the Bible says, we are not allowing the Lord to lead us. And, leading is what shepherds do. They do not drive the flock. They do not tell the flock where they ought to travel to. They are right there leading. Shepherds are examples to follow. Don’t get ahead of the shepherd and don’t fall too far behind where you can’t see him. Keeping your eyes on Jesus, is how Hebrews puts it. Romans says to be conformed to His image. Corinthians were told to imitate Jesus. Where He goes, we need to be.

Second, my faith is tied directly to the Lord. My faith isn’t run through the congregation. The congregation is necessary and helpful, especially for worship and encouragement, but things could go sour with each other down at the church house, without it changing my faith in the Lord. We serve the Lord. We follow the Lord. It is easy to let the atmosphere of the congregation influence my mood and faith. If things are going well, then my faith is. But if things are turbulent, then so is my faith. That shouldn’t be. The Lord is my shepherd, not the church. If the church falls apart and disbands, my faith remains with the Lord. If the church gets wiggly and stops following the Lord, what will you do? Some just go right along with the church. Not me. As for me and my house, we will follow the Lord. Our faith is with the Lord. We may stand at odds with what is going on down at the church house. There may be a time when we have to part ways with the church because of the direction it is going. None of that will impact my faith, because my faith is with the Lord.

Third, it means the Lord has your well being in mind. And, what the Lord wants is for you to succeed spiritually. Just as a Judean shepherd would want his sheep to be healthy, fat, and well, so does the Lord, but spiritually. And, to get you there, the Lord may have you cross some rugged territory, go through some deep valleys and have you shaken to the core to get you where you need to be spiritually. Having your house paid off early doesn’t mean much to the Lord. For thousands of years, His people never owed a house. Having your yard weed free, looks great in the neighborhood. That doesn’t do much for the Lord. Moses and his people dwelled in a wilderness for decades. Being in a position to retire, means a great deal to us. It doesn’t to the Lord. The apostles lived in a time when retirement, as we know it, never exited. But having a heart that is compassionate, hands that are willing to serve and feet that want to follow the Savior, is what God wants. If it means breaking us to get there, then that’s a good thing. We have trouble with that. It was good that the prodigal became broke and fed pigs. That opened his eyes to where he ought to be. God wants you strong spiritually. He’ll put opportunity, people, challenges and even problems before us that will make us rely upon what we know, and what we believe. These things will make us stronger and better. They will make us shine brightly for Him.

Forth, it means that we stay with the Lord always. The Lord is my shepherd is not a one time deal. It’s not just a salvation thing. It’s a way of life. It’s a direction and path in life. It’s a journey of a lifetime. We never leave the side of our Savior. We never let the Lord get out of our sight. Year after year, decade after decade, the more we have followed the Savior, the more convinced we are of how right all of this is. Duty is not the word. It is pleasure. Joy. Satisfaction. Trust. Love. The Lord will be with you through sadness, heartaches, funerals, disappointments, tears, smiles, and precious memories. The Lord is my shepherd. That’s a statement of life. That’s just how it is. And, following this shepherd will shape your attitude, mold your heart and give you wisdom to deal with a broken and crazy world.

The Lord is my shepherd. Have you thought about those simple words. What do they mean to you? Does the Lord see this by the way you conduct yourself? Do others see this by your choices in life? The Lord is. He is my Shepherd.

Powerful, powerful words.

Roger