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Jump Start # 2168

Jump Start # 2168

Proverbs 18:21 “Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it will eat its fruit.”

Life and death. Our passages today states it the opposite, Death and life. Death and life are in the power of the tongue. With our words we can lift spirits up and encourage. With our words we can crush hearts and wound people for a long, long time.

 

Our moms taught us, “Stick and stones may break your bones, but words will never harm you.” That was cute. That got us through the moment. But as we grew, we learned that broken bones heal, but wounded hearts often never do. Words do harm. Words, as this passage states, can cause death.

 

How does one get over something said that was mean, hurtful and crushing. It’s easy to say, “just don’t think about it,” but it’s there. We forget compliments but we can remember criticism for decades. And, in these days, those hurtful words come as texts, emails, Facebook and Twitter posts. Some will write things that they would never say to your face. Some will say mean things in a public forum, such as social media, just to attract a crowd of sympathizers and supporters. It reminds me of a young boy playing football. His dad asked him if he made any tackles. The boy said, “No, but I jumped on the pile a few times.” Social media allows us to jump on the pile.

 

So, someone said something critical, mean and hurtful to you.

 

First, that discourages us. It just takes the wind out of our sail. That’s all it takes to ruin a good day. It can happen so quickly and just like that, we feel like putting a paper sack over our heads.

 

Second, those hurtful words are replayed in our minds over and over. It’s hard to let them go. At night, when it’s time to settle down, those thoughts come ragging through our minds. And, just like picking a scab, those emotional wounds remain fresh and bloody. So, when someone tells us, ‘just don’t think about it,’ it’s hard not to. We don’t want to. But those thoughts are there. It seems no matter what we do, we can’t get rid of them.

 

Third, hurtful words certainly change relationships. It’s hard to be warm and fuzzy with someone who has thrown darts your way. In a family, this creates tension. In a church, it strains our fellowship. At work, we begin to think about finding another job.

 

Fourth, a person doesn’t have to live very long before they receive hurtful words. It starts with our siblings. Then our neighborhood friends. Then school. Then work. And, after that, just about anywhere or anytime. Too many are willing to speak their minds without first engaging their minds. They don’t consider how their words may be received. They don’t think about consequences. We hide our offensiveness by saying, “I just call them the way I see them.” Maybe you do, and maybe the way you are seeing things isn’t right.

 

I expect one of the main reasons young preachers quit is because of all the lip they take by thoughtless brethren who say mean and cruel things. Rather than helping these young guys, they kill them. You look to any preacher that has been preaching for any length of time, and he can tell you stories that would melt the snow. Things that have been said to him. It either toughens your hide or it’ll make you leave Dodge. Too many preachers have quit because of heartless things that were said to them.

 

So, what do I do when I have been hurt? Someone said something and it stung. It still stings. What do I do?

 

First, consider whether or not what they said could be true. Some don’t know how to say things in the right way. It may have come out backward, crooked and upside down, but is there any truth to what they are saying? Think about that first. If so, make adjustments. Their perception and our perception may not be the same. Chew on it a while.

 

Second, consider the source. Is it a spiritual person that is trying to help you? Is it an idiot who is always complaining, always causing trouble and is always trying to make up his mind whether he is with the Lord or not? Is it anonymous? That’s truly a coward’s way.

 

Third, look deep within your heart and pray. Ask God for patience, forgiveness and open eyes to see what needs to be seen. Remember, as our blood begins to boil, Jesus has never let you down. Jesus has never hurt you. We serve Jesus. We follow Jesus. Don’t let anyone get between you and Jesus.

 

Fourth, do not launch a counter-attack. We love to do that. Someone says something picky about us, so we say something mean about them. Back and forth the jabs go. Uglier and uglier until one finally leaves the discussion. Some do not know how to have a productive conversation. They use insults, name calling and words that are intended to hurt. You must rise above that. Remember the example of the suffering Jesus that Peter tells us about. When reviled, He uttered no threats. Boy, He could have. He could have split the earth open and swallowed up a few of them. He didn’t. He didn’t and we shouldn’t. It takes two to have an argument. It takes two to have a fight. If someone is getting agitated and irritated, it may be time to step away and calm down. Writing in capital letters is the same as shouting.

 

Fifth, remember, we are to forgive. Read Ephesians 4:31-32. When we do not forgive, bitterness, anger, wrath will fill our hearts and consume us. It will be the end of us. But when we are kind, tender-hearted and forgiving, it not only brings peace, but it brings bandages to wounded feelings and is necessary for healing.

 

Finally, clear your head. Go for a walk. Hit some golf balls. Go for a drive. Air out your mind. Put on some music that will help you. Breathe. Remember, you are the first to suffer for something you didn’t do. Get focused. Get your mind back where it needs to be. Spend some time in the Gospels.

 

What they said was cruel. Probably was. What they said wasn’t even right. Probably true. What they said hurt. Now, you decide how long and how deep the wound will be. It’s up to you to decide if you will allow this to change your, destroy you, crush you or something that you will be able to move on. Controlling your spirit, your anger and your words, is a true sign of strength. You could pop a guy in the nose, but you won’t. You could fire a nasty email back, but you won’t. You could make his life miserable, but you won’t. You won’t because Jesus never did. There is something much larger here than what was said. Your character is showing. When you are fired up it shows what you are made of. It’s a test. You are bigger than these things, so show it and demonstrate it by the way you allow your self to be effected by these things.

 

Death and life are found in words. Make sure you’re in the life business and not the death.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 2167

Jump Start # 2167

Luke 18:9 “And He also told this parable to some people who trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and viewed others with contempt”

Luke 18 is the chapter about prayer. There are two back-to-back parables about prayer. The persistent widow and the two men who went up to the temple to pray. Our verse today introduces the parable about the temple praying.

 

It’s good that both men went to pray. That’s more than some do. Some can go through an entire day, even a week, sadly, even a lifetime with little or no thoughts about God. Both of these men went to pray.

 

However, not all prayers are good. This parable illustrates that very well. One man thanked God that he was not like others and then he bragged to God. One doesn’t brag to God. First, He already knows. And, second, you are not going to impress God by what you do. The only thing that catches the eye of God is our faith. The Pharisee never praised God. He never truly thanked God. He didn’t really even talk to God. He needed nothing. He had to confess nothing. All he could do was look down from his mountain top and be glad he wasn’t like others. Arrogant, self-righteous and definitely in need of God’s grace, this guy missed it all together.

 

Now, this leads into a very sensitive subject, elitism in the church. It would be wonderful if it never existed, but it does. It hurts. It pushes some away. It’s ugly. It’s not necessary. I have seen it. I have tasted it. I have fought it. I have tried to steer clear of it. I want it to go away.

 

Elitism is demonstrated in several ways. Some will talk about all the Gospel Meetings that they go to. Some will talk about special Bible camps and classes that they go to. For some, it’s a certain college. For some, it can even be a certain congregation. Now, are any of these things wrong? No. Never. When the Bible is taught and honest and good hearts intersect, great things will happen. These things are good. Helping young people get closer to God through a study of the Bible is a wonderful thing. It’s life changing.

 

Very similar to our passage today and the parable about prayer. Praying in the temple was not wrong. It’s how one did it and what it did to them.

 

Elitism is driven by judging others. And, it is developed when you go to a spiritual event and I don’t. It is easily concluded that you are more spiritual than I am, simply because you are there and I am not. It’s just a step from that to think, you are better than I am. And, from that, you want to only associate with strong Christians, like you, and not like me. So, a club or clique forms. I’ve seen it in a congregation where only certain ones will talk to certain ones. If you are one who is on the inside, you are included, invited and welcomed. If you are on the outside, you feel like you are on the outside.

 

Now, here’s some problems with elitism in the church.

 

First, it stinks. It’s nothing like Jesus. I remember years ago a dad talking to me about his college son. He’s so spiritual now the father proudly said. The son walked in, passed right by me, and a few others, without saying a word. He went right to his buddies and you could see him laughing and enjoying his time with them. I turned to this father and said, “Spiritual? Even Jesus spent time with Samaritans.” My take-away from that was this college kid didn’t think I was in his spiritual circle. Samaritans– do you have any in your life? Would you even stop by a well in Samaria as Jesus did?

 

Second, so you are better than me. That’s probably true. Shouldn’t the big ones help the little ones? Should we work on helping each other mature and get stronger in the Lord? Share what you have learned. Invite and include others so they can see. Looking down our noses at others, doesn’t make one right nor is it the spirit of Christ. It’s like driving down the highway. Certainly there are people behind you and beside you, but there are also people ahead of you. That’s life. That doesn’t mean one is better than the other.

 

Third, we must be careful about judging someone’s spirituality and strength solely upon attendance, especially at special events. So a guy doesn’t attend all the area meetings. We can conclude that he is not very interested in the Gospel or that he is simply weak. However, he may be out teaching or helping someone and doing more good than we are. Maybe a congregation decides to have one Sunday service rather than two. Does that mean they are weak and not very spiritual? Maybe there are reasons you don’t know. Maybe we are hopelessly stuck in our traditions. Maybe we ought to mind our own business. A young person doesn’t go to a Bible camp. He’s not spiritual. Be careful. You don’t know that. That young man may be a great encouragement to his congregation. He may be a huge influence in his school. Because someone doesn’t come to our event doesn’t mean they are weak and uninterested.

 

Fourth, elitism stands directly in the shadows of the disciples who argued about which one was the greatest in the kingdom. That’s nothing more than judging and elitism. Jesus wouldn’t have any part with that. Serve is what the Lord said. Going to a college that teaches the Bible is nice if one can afford it. But long before any of those colleges existed, folks were faithfully serving the Lord and making a difference in their world. Before the colleges existed, people knew the word of God and could please the Lord. The schools serve a purpose, but they are not the church nor are we crushed without them. If someone wants to go, that’s fine. If they don’t, that’s fine.

 

Fifth, the way to make elitism go away is to include all, invite all, and learn from all. Don’t be too big in your britches, as my grandma used to say, to learn from others. Don’t mock a guy because he doesn’t use the “in” translation these days. Don’t think someone can teach you a thing or two even though he hasn’t been to all the things you have. Truth is truth, no matter who speaks it. The disciples wanted to run the children off. Jesus invited them and then used them to teach the disciples. Preachers need to remember this point as well. We can sit pretty tall up on the mountain top, thinking that we know the Bible more than anyone else. False. Not only that, but in many congregations, the preacher isn’t even the best public speaker. He just happens to be the one who gets paid to do that job. Learn from the little old widow who has studied her Bible all of her life. Listen to the teen whose curious eyes see something in a text that you have overlooked for years. Consider the perspective of others. Listen to their questions. Love all. Include all. Stop declaring that some are less spiritual than you are. Your assessment may not be right.

 

The Pharisee who prayed certainly thought he was better than the publican. He wasn’t. In fact, the prayer of the publican justified him. It did more good than the words of the Pharisee. If you must look down your nose, look down into a mirror and take a long, deep look at yourself. Are you doing what you can? Are you where you ought to be spiritually? Are you using your talents? Are you making a difference?

 

Elitism drives some away. It simply drives me crazy. It’s time to end it. It’s time to stop acting like a private county club and open the doors of our hearts to all. To the one who still has one foot in the world. To the one who is mixed up doctrinally. To the one who talks faster than he thinks. To the one who has been in trouble. To the one who is lukewarm. To the one who needs so much help and attention. Include. Invite. Welcome. Help. If we don’t, we tend to shun. And, it is here where the spirit of elitism starts all over again.

 

God so loved the world…that includes you and that includes me.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 2166

Jump Start # 2166

Matthew 15:12 “Then the disciples came and said to Him, ‘Do you know that the Pharisees were offended when they heard this statement?”

 

We live in a time when everyone wants to be happy and the spirit of service is to please. I go to a pizza place, and at the door there are three buttons to rate the service. You go to a store, and as you are handed your receipt, the cashier circles the bottom where you go on line, take a survey and rate how the service was. At another store, a message appears on the check out screen asking if you were satisfied. I go to get the oil change at a dealership, and immediately there is an email, wanting me to rate the service. How did we do? Were you satisfied? It seems all around us is this atmosphere of wanting to make the customer pleased. Businesses know that a satisfied customer will not only return, but he is likely to tell others and get them to come as well. Word of mouth is the best advertising method.

 

Somehow Jesus didn’t think that way. Our passage tells of some unhappy listeners, the Pharisees. Worse, they were offended. That word is often the death blow to visitors in a church setting. An offended visitor won’t come back. They heard something that upset them and they are finished with that place. However, Jesus didn’t seem to be bothered by unhappy Pharisees.

 

Jesus had just declared that some were hypocrites. They honor God with lips but their heart was far away. They were worshipping in vain. What defiles a person is what proceeds out of the mouth. After being told that some were offended, Jesus didn’t go and try to make things right. He didn’t apologize. He didn’t take a leave of absence. He wasn’t replaced. He didn’t send a team to go smooth things over with those offended. Rather, Jesus said, “Let them alone; they are blind guides of the blind.” Jesus wasn’t changing.

 

The culture of pleasing everyone spills over into the church, and especially the message of the sermon. Modern preachers tip toe around sensitive subjects, often staying away from words like HELL, OBEDIENCE, and SERVING. Famous preacher Osteen admits that he never uses the word “Sin.” Never. His arena packed audience laughs, feels great and enjoys the smiling preacher who makes them feel good. Paul’s words to Timothy on preaching, reprove, rebuke and exhort, just doesn’t seem to fit in the spirit that some feel ought to exist. Church ought to make one feel better, is the thought. Sermons ought to inspire, is the attitude.

 

I expect had Jesus’ audience being given the opportunity to take a survey and rate His preaching, many would have been negative. Now, some enjoyed listening to Him. Herod like listening to John the baptist. Felix like talking to Paul. But most would have been offended. We know this because many walked away from Him in John 6 when Jesus stopped providing free food. Others wanted to see Jesus do signs and miracles, as if He was a side show carnival act.

 

And, all of this brings us to the culture of worship services. In a time in which everyone is trying to please us, wanting to know our reaction to how we were served, we don’t find that among God’s people. The spirit is not trying to please the audience, but to bring praise and honor to God. As the word is preached, toes will be stepped on. Some will get the shine knocked off their shoes. Some will be uncomfortable. Some will feel guilt. Some will realize that if what is being said is true, then they are wrong. The message of sermons is not information but transformation. It leads us to changing. Just as I am, is a song about our condition when we come to Christ, but Just as I am, is not how I stay. I change. I become. And, through the process of the preached word, I am challenged, I am taught and I am persuaded to be what God wants me to be. Making me happy and satisfied is not the goal of worship services and especially not of the sermon. When God’s word is preached, it ought to bother those who are not right. It ought to stir a feeling within us that God is expecting me to change.

 

Some will leave church services, not with a smile on their face, but a serious look in their eyes. They have come to realize that some changes need to be made. It may be that they learned that they need to forgive and get rid of the bitterness in their heart towards others. That’s a tough road for some to travel down. They’d rather harbor ill feelings than to forgive. It may be that they learned that they need to pray for their enemies. That’s not the message they want to hear. They want to punch the lights out of their enemy. It may be something in their marriage. It may be in parenting. It may be in stepping up and using talents in the kingdom. The message makes them uncomfortable. Discipleship is hard. There is a cost to pay. Rather than getting a pat on the back and a gold star on top of their paper, the sermon scorched them. It shot right through the excuses that they were hiding behind. It stung and it hurt.

 

Like the Pharisees in our passage today, some are even offended. It’s not the message that they expected, wanted, nor did they like it. Some, will leave upset and they may not return. Some will go home and chew on what was said. They may, if their hearts are right, return a better person.

 

In parenting, we’d rather hear the truth from our child, than for them to tell us what they think will please us. Asking your college student how are the grades and he knows you want to hear that he’s doing well, so his answer is “fine.” And, at the end of the semester you learn that he’s flunked most of the classes, and his response is, “I didn’t want to bother you with the truth.” Now, there is a real problem.

 

We want our doctors to tell us the truth. Sure, it’d be great for him to say, keep doing what you are doing and all is fine, when in reality our heart is clogged and cancer is filling our body. Holding the truth may make us feel better, but we are not better. We are sick.

 

So, when it comes to the message preached, tell us nice things that makes us feel good, or tell us the truth? The culture says, “tell us nice things.” The Gospel demands that we tell the truth.

 

We recall Jesus saying, “You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.” Free from the prison of sin. Free from Satan’s grip. Free from guilt. Free from a coming punishment. Freedom in Christ is a wonderful thing, but it follows knowing the truth.

 

How did we do today is not the question to ask after a worship service. The real question is, was God pleased and did we honor Him by presenting His word in a truthful and kind fashion. We must be careful about being so concerned about making folks happy and satisfied that we forget about God in all of this.

 

It’s not about us, but it is about Him.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start 2165

Jump Start # 2165

Luke 2:30 “And the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid Mary; for you have found favor with God.”

Our verse today is the announcement of Gabriel about the coming birth of Jesus. Mary of Nazareth was chosen. The virgin Mary is how the Catholic doctrine refers to her. She was, until Jesus was born and then Mary had other children. The Bible names them. She followed Jesus throughout his ministry and sadly saw her son’s death upon the cross.

Mary was not the mother of God. That statement makes no sense. God is eternal. If God has always been, then how could such have a mother? How could someone be before eternity? Mary was the instrument to carry the Jesus clothed in a physical form.

A few thoughts about our verse today:

First, God chose Mary. There wasn’t a contest or a screening process. Just as God chose Abraham, David, the apostles and other leaders, He can look upon the heart of an individual. God knew what He was looking for and He saw it in Mary. God sees. God found Mary in Nazareth. There would have been dozens and dozens of Jewish girls about Mary’s age. She stood out. She was the choice of Heaven. Was Mary perfect, meaning, without sin? No. She needed the saving blood of Jesus as we all do. Finding favor with God does not mean perfection. Today, we’d pick Mary’s life apart. We’d find the mistakes and failures. We’d be naming her sins. God didn’t do that. He praised her by saying that He had found favor with her.

Second, Mary pleased God. Many modern scholars believe that Mary was young, possibly a teenager, getting that idea that Jewish girls typically married young. If this be true, it is just another example of young hearts that can and do follow the Lord. The three Jewish youths in the fiery furnace, young Timothy, young Joseph, all remind us that young people can and do please the Lord. Don’t give young people a pass and excuse a lack of interest, and a lack of spirituality because they are young. Young and dumb doesn’t catch the eye of God. Young and foolish is found in Proverbs. Young and rebellious, is often the spirit of college campuses. Looking for some reason to get out of classes to protest, burn, tear down and be destructive. Mary, found favor with God. That one statement tells us much. She had spent time worshipping God in the synagogue. That pleases God. She had followed the Law of God. That pleases God. She had prayed to God. That pleases God. Her heart was focused and tender towards God. And, that caught God’s eyes.

Third, up to this point in the Bible record, Mary is unknown. She wasn’t chosen because she was a prophetess. She wasn’t leading the nation. She hadn’t written some article that was causing reform to sweep through the countryside. She appears to have been a quiet, humble person who was simply living her life with a view towards Heaven. She wasn’t hoping that God would pick her. She hadn’t done anything special that caused God to notice. Her life, her character, her heart, was this way. Mary was this way. She seems surprised and shocked with the news from the angel. Sometimes a person will do something to be noticed or if they think that there is a chance that they could be chosen, they will put on the good behavior for a while. I don’t see this with Mary. Had Jesus not come to earth at that point, Mary would have continued to live a life that found favor with God. She chose to please the Lord. That was her ambition and goal. That was Mary.

Joseph, who later marries Mary is called a righteous man. I don’t see Mary putting on a show to win Joseph’s favor. In other words, in our times, I go to church with you, until the “I do,” then I start the “I don’ts.” This wasn’t a game with Mary. This wasn’t to get in good favor with a Jewish family. How can you say this, you ask? Because she found favor with God. The Lord sees through all the motives, intentions within our hearts. He knows. He knows when we are serious and when we are trying to impress others. He knows when we truly love Him and when we are just trying to look good. Remember the Pharisees and the washing of the inside of the cup first? Jesus could see right through their motives and intentions. On the outside they looked pretty good. However, on the inside they were a mess. Most would not have seen the inside for a while. Jesus did immediately. He knew. So, when God says that Mary has found favor with Him, it tells us that the Lord saw Mary as being a genuine believer. She was serious about her walk with the Lord.

Finally, Mary is not the first, nor the last to find favor with the Lord. In the parable of the talents, two of the men found favor with their master. Well done, good and faithful, was the response of the master. Paul found favor with the Lord. Those suffering saints in Revelation found favor with the Lord. Hebrews 11 is a chapter of dozens who were approved of by God. Over and over our Bibles give us examples of men and women, young and old, who walked faithfully with the Lord. They made God their choice. They often suffered because of their choices. And, today, the kingdom is filled with those who are loving, pleasing and serving the Lord. They are putting God before all things. They are raising their families to be moral, godly and caring. They worship regularly. They are generous. They are forgiving. They are modern examples of righteousness, hope and faithfulness to the Lord. These spiritual giants come in all ages. They are active helping others to know the Lord. They are the backbone of every congregation. They truly hide themselves behind the cross of Christ.

Mary found favor in the Lord. You have too.

Roger

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Jump Start # 2164

Jump Start # 2164

Matthew 10:42 “And whoever in the name of a disciple gives to one of these little ones even a cup of cold water to drink, truly I say to you he shall not lose his reward.”

I was thinking about this passage the other day. What was accomplished doesn’t seem very significant. We tend to think in terms of numbers and volume. What would impress us would be someone who arranged for a truckload of bottled water to be delivered. Take care of hundreds would be impressive. Organize, facilitate, big, big, big.

But, here in our verse, it comes down to just a cup of cold water. One cup. One cup helping one person. Heaven noticed that. Heaven rewards that effort done. One person. One cup. It didn’t change a nation. It didn’t change a city. It didn’t rewrite history. It helped one person.

Now, stretch that thought out and consider some applications.

A preacher works hard on a lesson and pours his heart into it. It’s a rainy Sunday evening, and the crowd is small. The preacher goes home wondering if he did any good. Those thoughts take him even deeper in discouragement. He wonders if he is ever doing any good. He even wonders, what’s the point. The week ends, and he must work on more sermons for the next Sunday. He wonders if it will be the same. He doesn’t know if he can do this for a lifetime. The hours of study, and preparation that he pours into his sermons seems to be a lost cause.

A class is taught at the congregation and only a few show up. It’s the same feeling. Someone has a home Bible study, and only a handful show. It’s the same feeling.

But then, our passage comes to mind. It’s not about numbers. It’s about helping one person. Just a cup of cold water. That sermon preached on a Sunday night to a small crowd may seem like a waste of time, but there may have been that one soul who was touched and changed. There may have been that one young man who became inspired to stand where the preacher was standing.

We tend to lean toward the big side of things. Big crowds. Big classes. Big is always better we tend to think. We look at Jesus teaching multitudes, but then we are reminded of the preacher who left Samaria, where multitudes were responding to his preaching to go talk to one Ethiopian on a deserted road. One cup. One person. One soul.

I remember reading about the career of some old time preacher and he was said to have baptized 15,000 in his lifetime. I can’t say that. I can’t get close to that. It’s like comparing my little league career with Babe Ruth. There is no comparison. Numbers again. With this thinking, a preacher who leaves a small church for a larger church has made the correct corporate move. He’s moving on up, as was sung on the old TV show, Jefferson’s. Maybe he has financially, but don’t forget that one cup concept.

Helping one person is valuable to God. That one Bible study. That one lunch to listen to someone. That one conversation that encourages. That one on one with someone. Don’t overlook the good that can be done nor feel that this has been a waste of time because you only helped one. There is an old story about a guy walking along the beach that was covered with starfish. He’d bend down pick one up and toss it back into the water. There were hundreds of starfish on the beach. Someone watching this said, “Do you think you’ll make any difference? There are so many.” The man tossed one more in the water and said, “I just did to that one.”

So, three things come from our passage.

First, we must recognize who needs a cup of cold water. I must have my eyes open to those who are hurting. I must understand that some won’t say anything. There are those who actually need cold water. Others need refreshing encouragement. Others need to beneficial help of a friend. It does little good to take cold water to someone who is not thirsty.

Second, we must know where to find cold water. It’s one thing to see needs, but here is someone who is doing something about it. He wasn’t screaming at the government to do something. He was complaining that the church ought to be doing more. He wasn’t organizing a work party to take care of the needs. He found a cup and knew where cold water was and he did it himself. Cold water comes in being able to listen to someone. Cold water comes in the form of encouragement and support. Cold water is found in the Gospels. Paul told the Thessalonians to “comfort one another with these words.” God sent Titus to Paul to refresh his spirit. Philemon was sent a nice letter from Paul, encouraging him to do the right thing. Cold water comes in many fashions. Do you know where to find it?

Third, from the text it seems that Heaven recognized what was done, but the giver of cold water didn’t seem to blow his trumpet, tell others, or seek recognition. He did what he was supposed to do. He did what he could. He didn’t bring a bottle of Coke. He didn’t take care of tomorrow’s water supply. Just one cup. Just a moment of relief. And, he could have ruined the moment by thinking, I did something and you didn’t. He could have returned to his place of worship and told others what he did and made them feel bad. He didn’t do any of those things. He offered a cup of cold water and went on his way.

I expect years later, the man forgot about giving a cup of cold water. His kind, and his nature, he has probably done that dozens and dozens of times. He didn’t keep track. He just did what he could. Now, the man who needed the water, he may never have forgotten the kindness. Years later the two may cross paths again. The one would remind the other of the wonderful day that water was given. The one would be surprised. He had forgotten all about that. And, that’s the way it ought to be. We don’t give one cup and feel that our life’s duty is over. We should be given cups here and there, all the time. We do it because we can. We do it because the Lord has done the same for us. We do it because we’d certainly want someone to do it to us if we were thirsty.

It is an odd encounter when someone thanks your for a cup of cold water you gave years ago and you don’t remember. They have never forgotten and I suppose they thought that you would remember as well. But you don’t. You have given so many cups to so many people, who are jJump Start # 2164

Matthew 10:42 “And whoever in the name of a disciple gives to one of these little ones even a cup of cold water to drink, truly I say to you he shall not lose his reward.”

I was thinking about this passage the other day. What was accomplished doesn’t seem very significant. We tend to think in terms of numbers and volume. What would impress us would be someone who arranged for a truckload of bottled water to be delivered. Take care of hundreds would be impressive. Organize, facilitate, big, big, big.

But, here in our verse, it comes down to just a cup of cold water. One cup. One cup helping one person. Heaven noticed that. Heaven rewards that effort done. One person. One cup. It didn’t change a nation. It didn’t change a city. It didn’t rewrite history. It helped one person.

Now, stretch that thought out and consider some applications.

A preacher works hard on a lesson and pours his heart into it. It’s a rainy Sunday evening, and the crowd is small. The preacher goes home wondering if he did any good. Those thoughts take him even deeper in discouragement. He wonders if he is ever doing any good. He even wonders, what’s the point. The week ends, and he must work on more sermons for the next Sunday. He wonders if it will be the same. He doesn’t know if he can do this for a lifetime. The hours of study, and preparation that he pours into his sermons seems to be a lost cause.

A class is taught at the congregation and only a few show up. It’s the same feeling. Someone has a home Bible study, and only a handful show. It’s the same feeling.

But then, our passage comes to mind. It’s not about numbers. It’s about helping one person. Just a cup of cold water. That sermon preached on a Sunday night to a small crowd may seem like a waste of time, but there may have been that one soul who was touched and changed. There may have been that one young man who became inspired to stand where the preacher was standing.

We tend to lean toward the big side of things. Big crowds. Big classes. Big is always better we tend to think. We look at Jesus teaching multitudes, but then we are reminded of the preacher who left Samaria, where multitudes were responding to his preaching to go talk to one Ethiopian on a deserted road. One cup. One person. One soul.

I remember reading about the career of some old time preacher and he was said to have baptized 15,000 in his lifetime. I can’t say that. I can’t get close to that. It’s like comparing my little league career with Babe Ruth. There is no comparison. Numbers again. With this thinking, a preacher who leaves a small church for a larger church has made the correct corporate move. He’s moving on up, as was sung on the old TV show, Jefferson’s. Maybe he has financially, but don’t forget that one cup concept.

Helping one person is valuable to God. That one Bible study. That one lunch to listen to someone. That one conversation that encourages. That one on one with someone. Don’t overlook the good that can be done nor feel that this has been a waste of time because you only helped one. There is an old story about a guy walking along the beach that was covered with starfish. He’d bend down pick one up and toss it back into the water. There were hundreds of starfish on the beach. Someone watching this said, “Do you think you’ll make any difference? There are so many.” The man tossed one more in the water and said, “I just did to that one.”

So, three things come from our passage.

First, we must recognize who needs a cup of cold water. I must have my eyes open to those who are hurting. I must understand that some won’t say anything. There are those who actually need cold water. Others need refreshing encouragement. Others need to beneficial help of a friend. It does little good to take cold water to someone who is not thirsty.

Second, we must know where to find cold water. It’s one thing to see needs, but here is someone who is doing something about it. He wasn’t screaming at the government to do something. He was complaining that the church ought to be doing more. He wasn’t organizing a work party to take care of the needs. He found a cup and knew where cold water was and he did it himself. Cold water comes in being able to listen to someone. Cold water comes in the form of encouragement and support. Cold water is found in the Gospels. Paul told the Thessalonians to “comfort one another with these words.” God sent Titus to Paul to refresh his spirit. Philemon was sent a nice letter from Paul, encouraging him to do the right thing. Cold water comes in many fashions. Do you know where to find it?

Third, from the text it seems that Heaven recognized what was done, but the giver of cold water didn’t seem to blow his trumpet, tell others, or seek recognition. He did what he was supposed to do. He did what he could. He didn’t bring a bottle of Coke. He didn’t take care of tomorrow’s water supply. Just one cup. Just a moment of relief. And, he could have ruined the moment by thinking, I did something and you didn’t. He could have returned to his place of worship and told others what he did and made them feel bad. He didn’t do any of those things. He offered a cup of cold water and went on his way.

I expect years later, the man forgot about giving a cup of cold water. His kind, and his nature, he has probably done that dozens and dozens of times. He didn’t keep track. He just did what he could. Now, the man who needed the water, he may never have forgotten the kindness. Years later the two may cross paths again. The one would remind the other of the wonderful day that water was given. The one would be surprised. He had forgotten all about that. And, that’s the way it ought to be. We don’t give one cup and feel that our life’s duty is over. We should be given cups here and there, all the time. We do it because we can. We do it because the Lord has done the same for us. We do it because we’d certainly want someone to do it to us if we were thirsty.

It is an odd encounter when someone thanks your for a cup of cold water you gave years ago and you don’t remember. They have never forgotten and I suppose they thought that you would remember as well. But you don’t. You have given so many cups to so many people, who are just thankful that the Lord has put you in a place where you can help.

This passage also shows that we need each other and that we need to care for one another. Without the cup, without the water and without a sharing heart that brought the water, someone would have been in a bad way. We need each other. We are there for each other. Some of us are thirsty and others are bringing water. The next time, the roles may change. And, once you have been given a cup of cold water, it makes you think of others that you can help. It changes you. You’ve had food brought to your house after a funeral. The next time there is a death, it makes you realize the good that is done and you jump in and bring your cup of cold water.

Such a simple verse. Such a powerful principle. Something we all could do. Not all of us can build a house. Not all of us could afford steak. Not all of us have room in our homes. But one cup of cold water, sure we can do that. All of us can do that.

And, that’s the idea.

Roger
ust thankful that the Lord has put you in a place where you can help.

This passage also shows that we need each other and that we need to care for one another. Without the cup, without the water and without a sharing heart that brought the water, someone would have been in a bad way. We need each other. We are there for each other. Some of us are thirsty and others are bringing water. The next time, the roles may change. And, once you have been given a cup of cold water, it makes you think of others that you can help. It changes you. You’ve had food brought to your house after a funeral. The next time there is a death, it makes you realize the good that is done and you jump in and bring your cup of cold water.

Such a simple verse. Such a powerful principle. Something we all could do. Not all of us can build a house. Not all of us could afford steak. Not all of us have room in our homes. But one cup of cold water, sure we can do that. All of us can do that.

And, that’s the idea.

Roger