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Jump Start # 1193

Jump Start # 1193

Matthew 4:24 “The news about Him spread throughout all Syria; and they brought to Him all who were ill, those suffering with various diseases and pains, demoniacs, epileptics, paralytics; and He healed them.”

  What a mixed group of hurting people that surrounded the Lord. This verse is interesting because of all the layers that we find connected to it.

 

First, news about Jesus spread throughout all Syria. Amazing. This was done without Youtube, Facebook, internet, emails, billboards, mass mailings, super highways or cell phones. Word spread. It spread because one person told another person. Don’t ever give up on that method. It worked then and it still works today. That’s always the best method. It may seem slow, but it’s personal and effective. All Syria knew about Jesus. From village to village, family to family, the news spread. People talked about Jesus. They knew because others couldn’t and wouldn’t keep quiet. Sometimes churches feel compelled to get involved in all kinds of super slick ways to contact people and many of those ways are extremely expensive. Some work. Some don’t. Still, one person telling another can’t be beat.

 

Second, the audience around Jesus was a mixture of all kinds of hurting people. They came. They came because they wanted to be well. They were looking not for salvation, but for wellness. They wanted to be well again. Jesus could do it. He had been doing it. Nothing seemed impossible. Blindness, deafness, demons, leprosy—Jesus got rid of all of these. He touched. He spoke. Immediately the people were well. The crowd around Jesus must have looked like an emergency waiting room. All kinds of sick, hurting people. Parents with sick and diseased kids trying to push their way up to the front to be seen by Jesus. Some with demons, that would scare those around them. Blind people, needing help to get around. Crippled folks, carried by family and friends. So many. So many hurting people. They all had needs. They all needed Jesus. I expect the patience of some ran thin. I expect some thought that they ought to be seen first. Most were thankful that Jesus could help them. Few truly understood what was happening that day. Each of those miracles was a footnote or proof validating that Jesus was indeed the Chosen One.

 

Some of those came to Jesus for the wrong reason. They weren’t really interested in lessons, parables, prophecy, fulfillment, promises, change, repentance or even salvation. They wanted to be well. Matthew states, “Various diseases,” and then he identifies some. These weren’t simple things. Epileptics, paralysis—those baffle doctors today. Even today, some of these things are treatable, but not curable. Jesus did it. He healed them. All disease. Nothing was too great for Jesus. They came believing that Jesus could do something. They heard. They heard about other people, people just like them, getting well. They heard that Jesus could do it. They came. They came for Jesus.

 

Third, we don’t know how many miracles Jesus did. Some books will devote themselves to the thirty some miracles that we know about in the Gospels, but our passage reminds us that there were more. There were many that we don’t know about. How many were healed on the day that Matthew was writing about? We don’t know. The point of the Gospels is not a detailed, day by day look at the calendar of Jesus. The point is to convince us that He is the Son of God. There are enough miracles listed. There are enough parables given. There are enough words recorded that we can know, believe and follow Jesus. We will never know in this world all the good that Jesus did.

 

Finally, the world is still hurting today. Jesus didn’t cure the world of disease. That was not His purpose, intention, nor desire. The world is broken because of sin. Death is part of that world. Disease, accidents, disasters and crime are the vehicles which bring about death. Doctors do a marvelous job of keeping us alive. Medical research has allowed us to live longer and live better. Certain diseases, especially in this country, such as polio, whopping cough and small pox, once running free and wild, taking hundreds of lives every year, are now held in check. But there are other diseases. Other worries. We will never wipe them all out. Never. Disease leads to death. Death will be a part of this world until Jesus returns. So there are many hurting people today. Not all of them have a physical disease. Some are crippled with attitude problems. Some are hurting because of mental and emotional issues. Some have broken hearts because of family problems. Some are crushed because of financial burdens. The pain is real. They are stressed, worried, fearful and looking for help and hope.

 

Hurting people are more likely to listen to Jesus. The prodigal came to his senses, not while he was walking away from home with a pocket full of money. He came to his senses, not while he was flying through the money with loose living. But later. When he was broke and a famine came and no one was there to help him. Then, eyeball to eyeball with a pig, he awoke from this spiritual fog that he had been in. He saw for the first time how low, how desperate and how helpless he truly was. It was then, he came home. The hurting are looking. They may not be looking for the right things, but they are certainly looking. It’s hard to convince a guy who is not looking to start looking. The guy with a big house, a big paycheck, a healthy family isn’t looking for much. He thinks he has all that he needs. He has little time or desire for sermons. He thinks he doesn’t need them. He’s doing just fine. Everything’s great. But it’s the other guy, the one who is messy, that is really looking. He’s been through jobs. He’s been through relationships. He’s been in and out of trouble. He may have a record. He may have kids from one than one person. He may have scars, both physically and emotionally, from substance abuse. He may have had a bad experience with churches. He’s looking. He’s not looking for doctrine. He’s not overly concerned about church organization, the type of music in worship, grasping the trinity or when and how Jesus is coming back. We like those subjects. We teach them often. There is a place for them. The hurting is looking for help. The hurting is looking for answers. The hurting needs a friend and some attention. They come with messy lives. It’s not neat and orderly. Most would not make poster images for the church. But they are the most like the people who first came to Jesus. Broken, busted and defeated. They have cried. They have been angry. They have been bullied. They have been told “No.” They are hurting. They are looking.

 

This is where evangelism begins. Showing someone that what they have tried hasn’t’ worked. They know that. They know that better than anyone. Their way stinks. Now they are ready for Jesus’ way. They need something real. Something personal. Something more than fingers pointing in the air.

 

Some don’t like to be around these kind of people—hurting people. Like the first ones that came to Jesus, they have problems and issues. They may have misguided expectations about what can and should be done. But here they are. What an opportunity. What an open door to change lives, to introduce Jesus, to make disciples.

 

The hurting came to Jesus. He allowed that. How about you? Do you come to Jesus when you hurt? Do you allow others to come to you? Do you help where you can?

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 1192

Jump Start # 1192

Mark 6:3 “Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary, and brother of James and Joses and Judas and Simon? Are not His sisters with us?” And they took offense at Him.”

  Our verse is about Jesus going back home to Nazareth where He grew up. He was born in Bethlehem, but grew up in the Galilean village of Nazareth. Going home—it’s said once you leave, things are not the same since you left. You go back and look at the house you grew up in. As a child, that yard and the house seemed so big. Now as an adult, you realize that it wasn’t all that large. The old home town changes when you come back. Stores close. New roads are built. Neighbors move out. In some ways it looks the same, but in many ways it’s different. It will never be the same again. Jesus wasn’t received well at Nazareth. He wasn’t the local boy who did well. There wasn’t parades in His honor. He was not the war hero that everyone loved. In fact, it was the opposite. His reception was about as bad as it could be. The crowds questioned where He got such wisdom. The text later tells us that He could only do a few miracles there. And our verse illustrates the magnitude of the problem when “they took offense at Him.” He offended them. They were embarrassed by Him. They didn’t like what He was saying and doing. They wished that He would stop. Just go back and be the regular Jesus that we grew up with. Be normal like the rest of us. These teachings, these signs, these grand claims, that He was the chosen one, that was preposterous to them. They knew Jesus, at least they thought they did. He was the local carpenter. They had purchased tables and chairs that He made. They waved to Him as He walked down the street. He left and now He’s back. He’s different. They didn’t like this different Jesus.

 

Our verse tells us several things.

 

First, our verse tells us that Mary had other children. Their names are listed here. She had a lot of kids. The belief that Mary was always a virgin is disputed by this evidence. It is odd that Jesus is called the “son of Mary.” Generally, the father’s name was listed. It is thought that by this time Joseph had passed away.

 

Second, they were offended by Jesus. Instead of being amazed at His teaching, instead of being thankful for His healing, they were offended. Offended by Jesus. The Jesus who never said anything wrong, nor who had to apologize, who never sinned. They didn’t like this Jesus. The Messiah they thought would be like King David of old. Jesus wasn’t like that. They knew this Jesus. He was one of them. David had armies. David would ride a horse. There would be banners waving, trumpets blowing, and people would line the streets to catch a glimpse of the passing king. That’s what these people were looking for and hoping for. Jesus didn’t fit the bill.

 

People are still offended by Jesus. He doesn’t fit the bill for modern times. Folks are looking for a great guy who will wink at their sins. They are looking for a buddy. They want a Jesus to bail them out of trouble, and then leave them alone to do what they want. They want a Jesus who will let them do whatever they want to be happy. A happy, happy, happy Jesus is what folks want. And some churches today provide that. They will only preach part of the message of Jesus. Like a cafeteria, the best pieces are picked out and the rest are avoided. World famous Joel Osteen proudly admits that he never uses the word sin. Jesus did. A poll of many influential preachers in this country revealed that most of them have not preached on the subject of Hell in decades. Many no longer even believe in Hell. Jesus did. Touchy subjects such as same-sex marriage and divorce are avoided and not talked about. Give the people what they want is the theme in far too many churches today. The customer is always right may be a great thought for a store, it stinks when it comes to a church. What about Jesus? Have we left Him outside the door? Years ago when a person was sworn in court, they had to promise to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. It’s the WHOLE TRUTH, that some churchmen have left out. They don’t tell the whole truth.

 

Offended. Offended by the message. Offended by what God expects. Offended by the commitment God wants. Offended by the righteous life God wants. Offended. This is true. You can’t live like a sinner and die like a saint. Won’t happen.

 

So what happens to you and I when we come across some principles in the Bible that smack us. What do we do when we see that we are not lining up with the word of God? What happens when we see that what we are doing isn’t right according to the Bible? Do we find a loophole? Do we just ignore those verses? Do we change our ways? Do we walk away from Jesus, offended? It will happen. It will happen because we are not where we ought to be with God. If we were, then Jesus would not have been needed to come to the cross. We need God. We need God on His terms and in His ways.

 

There will be Bible passages that make you uncomfortable. Truth does that to a person. Guilt has a place in our lives. That guilt will lead you to either change your ways or it will lead you to walk away offended. The honest and good heart will be shaped, molded and changed by the word of God. It seeks to please God. It longs to be right with God.

 

Being a preacher, I’m told that I’m in the toe stepping business. It’s not pleasant to make people uncomfortable. But when it produces that faithful and righteous living it is. No one gets their toes stepped on more than the preacher himself. He knows. If he listens to himself, he’ll be changing along with everyone else.

 

Offended…what a shame. They missed the greatest opportunity, Jesus. Their closed hearts and narrow ways kept Jesus from making an impact with them.

 

Don’t let that happen to you. You’ll get your toes stepped on. That’s ok. You need that. Just thank the preacher, and then thank the Lord and get about making adjustments in your life.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 1191

Jump Start # 1191

Matthew 14:31 “And immediately Jesus stretched out His hand and took hold of him, and said to him, ‘O you of little faith, why did you doubt?’

  We conclude our series on the questions that Jesus asked. This is a great study and it teaches us so many great lessons. A person could look at the questions people asked Jesus and how He answered them. These interactions reveal what was important and what was on the mind of people.

 

Our verse today takes place on the sea. It is early in the morning, possibly 3 A.M. It’s dark. It was stormy. The wind and the waves were kicking up a fuss. Peter saw Jesus walking on the water and he asked to do the same. Jesus called Peter out of the boat. He started walking, then he took his eyes off of Jesus and noticed the wind and the waves. He started to sink. He screamed out, “Lord, save me.” Then our verse. The Lord stretched out His hand. The Lord saved Peter. Then the question, “Why did you doubt?”

 

I can think of a few reasons. The wind. The darkness. The waves. People don’t walk on water. Fear is a killer to faith. The fear of the unknown. The fear of what others might think. The fear of getting caught. The fear of disappointing someone. The fear of storms. That did it for Peter. That was all it took.

 

Fear eroded Peter’s faith. Fear killed it. He was walking, now he was sinking. He believed, now he doubted. The same happens to us. It’s not walking on water, but it can be other things. A comment from a co-worker, an article on the internet, a criticism on a blog and suddenly we are no longer walking with Jesus. Doubt takes hold and we are no longer sure. I watched a Youtube video of a young man blasting some things I cherish and hold dear and true. He was arrogant, brash and without evidence. His criticisms made it seem that I am an idiot for believing what I do. All it takes is something like that to send one’s faith spiraling downward. For some, it comes sitting in a college class. A professor makes profound statements against the Bible which the young believer has never considered before. She looks around and nearly everyone in the class is in agreement with the professor. She begins to wonder. Maybe he’s right. There, in that classroom, her faith begins to sink. She doesn’t know what to think. She doesn’t know how to answer the professor’s charges against the Bible. This also happens when a person gets caught up in a moral dilemma. He wants out of the marriage but the Bible is specific about divorce. He talks to others. He reads some things here and there. Soon he begins seeing things differently. It isn’t a study of God’s word that led him to these new conclusions, it is a situation that he wants to be right, often when it isn’t right. He starts to sink.

 

Something interesting about Peter’s sinking. It happens. But two things take place that we often fail to see.

 

First, Peter called out to the Lord. He cried, “Lord, save me.” He didn’t turn from the Lord but to the Lord. When our faith starts to sink, drift and fall apart, it is to the Lord that we need to turn. Too often, we turn to the winds and the waves that created the doubt. We feed our doubts and not our faith. More internet articles. More books trashing God. More conversations with what is wrong with Christianity. It doesn’t take long and a believer has crashed upon the rocks of doubt. Peter turned to the Lord.

 

Second, Peter took the Lord’s hand. The Lord stretched out His hand and Peter grabbed it. That’s the key. That saved Peter. If we would do the same, our faith would become solid once again. Turn to the Scriptures. Find the answers, they are there.

 

Why do you doubt? I saw a show recently about Mark Twain. The end of his life was very sad. His daughter and wife died. Another daughter died. That’s all it took and Twain tossed any belief in God upon the rocks of despair. He couldn’t understand. The same tragedy is repeated today. Why do you doubt? Does a death of a loved one erase all the evidence about God? Does the sorrow in my heart mean that God does not exist? God is, if I am happy. But in misery, God isn’t.

 

Why do you doubt? How can you doubt? The evidence, the proof, the blessings are all abundant. We need to learn from Peter. We need not give up on God because the storm clouds gather and the sky darkens. Be believing—at all times. Be believing when trials come. Be believing when others scoff. Be believing when you stand alone. Be believing because that is right and you know, you really know deep down that the Bible is right. There is too much proof otherwise.

 

Poor Peter. The Lord didn’t let him sink. He was there. God is there for you if you look for Him. He’s there to pull you out of doubt if you allow Him to. He’s not going to let you sink unless you give up on Him.

 

Why do you doubt? Great question. Why do we?

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 1190

Jump Start # 1190

Mark 10:18 “And Jesus said to him, ‘Why do you call Me good? No one is good except God alone.”

  Our look at the questions of Jesus continues. I found in my library recently an old book entitled, “The Questions of Jesus.” Another one was entitled, “Twelve Questions Jesus Asked.” And then there was “One Hundred Questions Jesus Asked.” That’s a lot of questions for a three year period that He taught.

 

One of the marvelous things that Jesus’ questions accomplished was getting people to think. I guess it’s pretty easy for you and I to just walk through a day without too much reflection, observation and deep thinking. We use our brains for our jobs. But beyond that, a typical day doesn’t really tax us mentally. There is a lot of surface thinking and silly talking that fills our time. The Psalmist was blessed to meditate upon God’s word day and night. We don’t do much meditating. That word brings images of sitting crossed legged on a mat with our palms pointing upward and humming to some Eastern music. None of that was involved with the Psalmist’s words. He thought. He reflected. He considered. He dropped the net spiritually and mentally. Causal thinking has led to some arguments and positions that really do not hold water. When a person puts their mind to it they see inconsistencies and problems with those shallow positions.

 

Our verse is one of those occasions when Jesus made someone think. Luke tells us that this man was a ruler. He had a question for Jesus. He wanted to know what was required for eternal life. Great question. We ought to be asking that question. Before he asked the question, he sent a nice compliment towards Jesus. He called Him, “Good teacher.” Teacher, or rabbi, was the most common term people used to address Jesus. You’ll find “teacher” used more times than Jesus. Good teacher—Jesus was. Jesus was a great teacher.

 

Before Jesus touched the question, He had a question for the man. He said, “Why do you call Me good?’ No one is good, except God alone.” Goodness as used by Jesus, is more than being nice and kind. We talk about a good dog, or a good worker, or a good friend. We use the word good often. Jesus had more in mind. To Jesus, goodness implied moral character. To be good was to be sinless. It was a special word. God alone is good, meaning that God alone is without sin. God alone is wholly good. Each of us have a past that is not good. We all have sinned. There are dark spots in our history. God doesn’t have any of those.

 

There is more to this. Only God is good. This man called Jesus ’good teacher.’ Jesus didn’t correct him by saying, “I’m not good,” nor, “I’m not all that good.” Jesus didn’t tell this man, “Do not call me good.” You call me good. Only God is good. Why do you call me good? What Jesus was driving at is a deep thought. This man wasn’t thinking very deeply. Jesus wanted this man to realize that you are talking to God. God is good. You call me good. I am good. I am God. Now, had he realized that, his question may have been different. His tone, his attitude, his motive may all have changed had he realized that he had an audience with God. Moses talked to God through a burning bush. Isaiah saw God in a vision. But here, face to face, this man had a conversation with God. Amazing. That thought makes me shutter. I have no idea what I would say, if I could even say anything. I think I would just stare.

 

Jesus answered his question. He told him to keep the commandments. Jesus names six. They come from the Ten Commandments. Five of the six were negatives. The man claimed that he kept those, from his youth he has been keeping them. Then the text adds, “Jesus felt a love for him. “ One thing more. Sell all and give it to the poor. Jesus knew. It’s easy to avoid the negatives. It’s hard to do the doing verses. Jesus knew his heart. Materialism was this man’s god. Stuff was keeping him from knowing God. Sure he kept the commandments, but his stuff was keeping him from being a true disciple. The stuff would keep him out of Heaven. Sell it. It’s not worth your soul. Get rid of the cancer in your heart. Mark tells us that “his face fell.” What a powerful expression. His face fell. Suddenly, instantly, the smiles turned to frowns. He walked away grieved. He couldn’t do it. Jesus was asking too much. He went home to his fine house and all his nice stuff, but there remained an emptiness in his soul. He had hoped for a different answer. He wanted Jesus to take him and all his stuff. He hope that he was good enough the way he was.

 

Jesus knew. That’s why he said what He did. Had He handed him a soft answer, this man would continue to be deceived. He thought he was there. He wasn’t. He had a long way to go.

 

This is how the Bible is living and active. This is how the Bible is able to divide the soul and the spirit. This is how the Bible pierces our hearts. When Peter preached, the audience was “cut to the heart.” It was nearly a fatal blow. It made them stop in their tracks. Those thoughts made them interrupt Peter and ask, “What shall we do?” When the living word connects with an honest and good heart, change takes place. We are cut. We are stunned. We see. It leads us to apologizing. It leads us to changing our ways. It leads us to obeying Jesus.

 

God’s word will make us uncomfortable. It will make us feel guilty. Maybe that’s why some want nothing to do with the Bible. Mark Twain once said what bothered him was not what the Bible didn’t say, but what it did say. Those uneasy, guilty feelings will cause you to break your pride, will and stubbornness and come to Christ on His terms, or it will lead you to walk away from God.

 

This ruler who came to Jesus with a question, thought he had everything worked out. He was expecting a compliment. Instead, he went home dejected and defeated. Jesus didn’t say what he wanted. Jesus made him think. He probably hadn’t thought that way before. Now he knew. If anyone was going to change, it had  to be him. Jesus wasn’t changing.

 

We walk in the same steps as this ruler when we come to the Bible and find the truth is not what we wanted to hear. We don’t like what the Bible says, so we walk away. Frustrated, we find excuses. We hide behind the notion, “That’s your interpretation.” Some consider the Bible like modern art. It’s full of impressions and each person gets a different idea from it. That’s a bunch of nonsense. The only folks that believe that are those who do not like what the Bible says. So they change the message instead of changing their ways. Jesus said you can know the truth and the truth will make you free. The Bible isn’t modern art. There aren’t dozens of ideas and ways to walk and please God. Dejected and defeated, we can either do what Jesus says, or we can walk home alone.

 

The rule walked home alone. How about you. Jesus makes you think. He makes you think deeply. Your brain may hurt, but that’s good. He’ll make you see yourself in ways that may make you uncomfortable. He wants you to be like Him. He wants you to change. He wants you to be holy and righteous. That word has a way of getting to us. It’s living. It doesn’t go away. It will haunt you until you finally realize that Jesus is right.

 

Why do you call me good? Why?

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 1189

Jump Start # 1189

Mark 9:33 “And they came to Capernaum; and when He was in the house, He began to question them, ‘What were you discussing on the way?’”

  We are looking at the questions of Jesus this week. Our Lord used this as a great method of teaching. Our passage today shows the way that questions can penetrate the heart and make a person truly think. There are many hymns that ask a question. The song, “O why not tonight,” has been used to get people to think about their relationship with the Lord. I know one person who was asked that very question after the congregation sang that song. “O why not tonight?” That person thought and decided to come to Christ.

 

Jesus, in our verse, asked the disciples what were you discussing. Jesus knew. He wanted them to fess up to what they were talking about. It wasn’t good. They should have known better. The following verse states, “But they kept silent, for on the way they had discussed with one another which of them was the greatest.” What a dumb topic to talk about. Why does it matter? It did to them. I suppose each was putting forth reasons why they ought to have been the greatest. Maybe the ‘inner three’, Peter, James and John, thought they had the inside track to being the greatest. Poor Thaddeus, there’s simply not much there about him. He must have really felt left out. They didn’t understand that there wasn’t a pecking order in the kingdom. There was no such thing as the greatest. The modern concept of naming church buildings after the apostles is the very opposite of what Jesus was stressing. More than that, they completely missed the picture that Jesus was putting before them. He was a servant. He served others. He went when asked. He helped. He busied Himself in the lives of others. How could they see all this and miss the point? Jesus wasn’t being catered to. He was the one who was doing.

 

There is a greater lesson here with Jesus’ question. Asking, what were you discussing, would make them reveal the subject and the problem. They remained silent. Parents today generally get a “nothing.” What are you doing? Nothing. Nothing is the theme song for young people. What happened at today at school a parent asks. The answer, Nothing. What are you watching on TV? Nothing.

 

It is interesting that Jesus didn’t let the subject drop. He didn’t let their silence be the end. There was a problem brewing and He knew it. So they sat down in the house and Jesus says, “If anyone wants to be first, he shall be last of all, and servant of all.” Their eyes must have bounced around looking at one another. How did He know? Who told Him? Guilty and embarrassed, it was a lesson learned.

 

Penetrating questions are hard to ask. They are also hard to answer. They are personal. Without a relationship, such questions feel nosey. You wouldn’t ask a neighbor who you barely knew, how much he was making? His response would be, ‘It’s none of your business.’ And he’s right. Some times we try to make things our business when it’s not. This strains feelings down at the church house and even in the family. I know. I’ve been asked them. I guess when you are a preacher everyone feels like they have a right to know. And some of the stuff they want to know, they shouldn’t. We had four wonderful children. When my wife would come to services with a new born in arms, we’d be asked, ‘Are you going to have any more?’ We were asked, ‘When are you going to have the next one?’ Those questions are personal and really no one else needs to know.

 

There is a place for penetrating questions.

 

  • Parents have a right to ask them of their children. Kids can be slick and dodge questions. They can be vague, ambiguous and play hide and seek with their answers. Looking eyeball to eyeball, no earphones in their ears, no texting in their hands, there comes a time for questions. When the behavior is not right, ask the questions. When grades are slipping, ask the questions. When they start getting an attitude, ask the questions. When they hang out with the wrong people, ask the questions. You ask, because you care and you have a right to know. When they say, “I don’t have to tell you,” they’re wrong. They do.

 

  • In a personal Bible study, there comes a time for penetrating questions. Not at first, but after a few studies. When trust and relationships have been formed. When they see that the Bible is final standard that we go by. When studies have led to the person making a decision, a decision needs to be made. What will you do? Do you know my Jesus? O why not tonight? As you read passages together and explain them, let the word of God work on the heart. Ask the question and then wait. Silence is hard. But wait. Wait for them to say something. Wait for a response. There may be questions they have. There may be some things they don’t understand. There may be a fear factor that you can help them overcome. They may just be waiting for you to ask them.

 

  • There is a place for the penetrating questions when helping someone overcome trouble in their life. Again, you need to have a relationship with the person, otherwise you appear as nosey, which you are. Not knowing someone limits what we can ask them. James discusses the value of confessing our sins to one another. There is great help and encouragement in that. There is a place for the deep and personal questions. Those moments can be the very thing that turns a heart the right direction. The right questions, asked the right way, by the right person…tender, patiently, kindly—these are the necessary ingredients that make personal questions useful.

 

I believe Jesus could have asked another question to the disciples. He asked, ‘What were you discussing…’ He could have asked, ‘Why were you discussing that?’ The why’s are as important as the what’s. Jesus asked this question because He cared and He was shaping the hearts of the disciples. Caring questions help. Nosey questions harm. Some people just want to know. They don’t plan to do anything with the information other than possibly tell someone else. There is a difference between prying questions and penetrating questions. There is a difference between nosey questions and caring questions. Make sure you understand the difference and use prayer and wisdom in how you use these.

 

Inquiring minds want to know…caring hearts want to help. Big difference. Jesus knew the difference.

 

Roger