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Jump Start # 1048

Jump Start # 1048

Titus 3:4 “But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared, He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit.”

 

Paul reminds Titus of the wonderful and generous act of God upon mankind. God’s love led Him to save us. It was based upon His mercy. Our hearts ought to be filled with love and thankfulness to God for this alone. Without this, we could not have been saved.

 

Notice how Paul opens this passage, by the expression, “the kindness of God our Savior.” God is kind. God is good. We can forget that at times.

 

God is not sitting behind a cloud with a radar gun pointing at you, ready to nail you for every infraction you make. God is kind. God is not a mean grump that is determined to take away all the fun in your life by loading you down with heavy rules that just make you sigh. God is kind.

 

  • God is kind even though there are hardships in your life.
  • God is kind even though things do not always work out as you planned.
  • God is kind even though you must journey through the valley of the shadow of death.
  • God is kind even though there are periods of tears in your life.
  • God is kind even though some of His people are not.

 

We can misunderstand the kindness of God. For some, if life is not filled with happiness every moment, then they question how can God be kind. For some, kindness of God means a free ride—no responsibilities, no obligations, nothing to do. Others define kindness as getting away with wrong things. Kindness, for them, would be looking the other way. These concepts are based upon worldly hearts that are selfish and not seeking the righteousness of God. The Lord is kind, yet, His will prevails. His will, as Jesus prayed, will be done, in Heaven and on earth.

 

How is God kind? He’s given you today, hasn’t He? Each day is a gift. He has blessed you. He has been there for you. He has answered your prayers. He has come into your life and shown you what you need to do. He gives food, health, life and hope. The greatest demonstration of God’s kindness, is found in this verse. God is so kind to forgive us. Just sentences before, Paul described what little angels we were: “we also once were foolish ourselves, disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another.” What a mess we were. How wrong we were. How God had every right to throw the book at us and to toss us out. His kindness led Him to extend mercy to a people not deserving of mercy. He saved us not because we go to church on Sunday, nor, because we are so cute and adorable, but rather because of His mercy and love. We became justified, or right, by His grace.

 

There is a hymn that begins, “God is so good…God is so good…He’s so good to me!” Yes, He is.

 

He is kind. This is why we can approach Him. This is why we can long to be with Him. This is why we can have a wonderful relationship with Him. He is good. He is so good to me. God is better to us, than we are to Him. Think about how many times we forget to talk to God. Think about how many times we are so busy that we put off reading His word. Think about how many times, in worship, we day dream, we sleep, we play around with our phones. Think about how many times we allow worry to dominate us. Think about how many times we flirt with sin. Think about how many times we forget to thank God for all that He does.

 

God is good to us. That ought to compel you to thank Him, praise Him, and follow Him.

 

The kindness of the Lord…

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 1047

Jump Start # 1047

Hebrews 12:14 “Pursue peace with all men, and the sanctification without which no one will see the Lord.”

  This passage tells us three things:

 

  • Peace and sanctification—pursue it. Chase it. Go after it. Find it. Peace means getting along with others. It is not compromising convictions, looking the other way at wrongs, but not being so pushy, opinionated, stubborn that you cause trouble with everyone. Some folks are like sandpaper. They are hard to get along with and they pride themselves in being that way. Not God’s people. They want peace. Jesus said, “Blessed are the peace makers.” Many enjoy peace. Everyone wants peace. God’s people help MAKE peace. Sometimes, to have peace, a person must just keep their mouth closed. That’s hard for some. They always have to have the last word, and that final word, too often is a dig that irritates things. Pursue peace. Being a senior citizen doesn’t grant you the right to be a grump. Pursue peace.

 

  • Sanctification means holiness. God is holy. We are to be holy. Holy in thought. Holy in behavior. Pursue holiness. That starts with thinking pure thoughts. Impure is not always sexual. Impure can be just mean and ugly things about others. When a conversation begins, “I probably shouldn’t say this…” Well then don’t. Pursue sanctification. Don’t blend in, be transformed. Don’t conform, pursue holiness.

 

  • Without which—without peace…without sanctification, no one will see the Lord. Seeing Jesus. To see Jesus, you must be in Heaven, that’s where He’s at. Revelation promises that “we will see His face.” Without peace, there is no Heaven. Without sanctification, Heaven’s not going to happen.

 

I love that expression, “see the Lord.” Can you imagine? Jesus, the one you have studied for years. Jesus, the one that you can quote His words. Jesus, the theme of all those hymns you sang. Jesus, the one you’ve tried to imitate and follow. Jesus, the one you love. Jesus, the one you’ve talked to every day. See Him. See Jesus.

 

See Jesus. Everything will be alright once we see Jesus. All those questions really won’t matter that much once you see Jesus. All the sorrow we have carried won’t matter, once we see Jesus. The trials of our journey won’t matter much, once we see Jesus.

 

Seeing Jesus is our motivation. Seeing Jesus is what we are after. If we can only make it to see Jesus. It doesn’t matter how lonely we are, we will see Jesus. It doesn’t matter how hard things have been, soon we will see Jesus.

 

Seeing Jesus takes the fear out of death. Seeing Jesus makes us want to rush through this world so we can be with Him. Seeing Jesus will keep our priorities in check. Seeing Jesus thrills us and makes worship come alive.

 

Isaiah cried, in his vision, My eyes have seen the king. John, in Revelation, fell like a dead man, when He turned and saw Jesus. The Lord who has blessed you all these years. The Lord who has answered so many of your prayers. The Lord who has led you and opened doors for you. The Lord who has loved you and thought of you so often. The Lord who forgave you and gave you another chance. The Lord who invites you to dwell with Him forever. It is the Lord that we will see.

 

That thought makes the day seem that much brighter. It pushes us that much more. Seeing Jesus. Without peace and sanctification, it cannot happen. So work on my relationships. So work on my heart. We have an invitation to see the Lord, we do not want to miss that.

 

Roger

 

 

 

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Jump Start # 1046

Jump Start # 1046

Acts 6:1 “Now at this time while the disciples were increasing in number, a complaint arose on the part of the Hellenistic Jews against the native Hebrews, because their widows were being overlooked in the daily serving of food.”

  Our passage today shows us one of the first problems that the early church faced. The problem was more cultural than it was about Christianity. The Hellenistic Jews were different than the native Hebrews. They had been “Hellenized.” They live outside of Judea, spoke Greek and had been influenced by the Greek culture. The native Hebrews remained around Judea, spoke Hebrew and resisted cultural changes. Now they were all Christians. The widows were being taken care of. However, the Hellenized Jews were being ignored. This upset some and they complained to the apostles.

Oh, life in the church! Great lessons come from this setting.

First, complaints will happen. You can’t ignore them, nor think that someday we will out grow complaints. Some are simple things such as, a light bulb is burned out in the ladies bathroom. Others get more serious, it’s too hot in here, or it’s too cold in here; or, the mics are too loud, or I can’t hear anything. Complaints. Sometimes the complaints become grave. Some complain about how the church’s money is being used. Some complain about the preacher and feel that it’s time for a change. Some complain about the direction the church is going and question the decision of the leaders.

 

Why do we complain? Where I live, folks always complain about the weather. The winter is too cold and long, the summer is too hot. It snows too much. It rains too much. It doesn’t rain enough. In Indiana, there are two absolutes about the weather: it always changes, and someone will always complain. I think the reason we complain is that we want things a certain way and when it’s not, we express our displeasure. We want a nice warm sunny day. Instead it’s cloudy and snowy. It ruins our mood, puts us in a foul spirit and we complain. We complain about service and food at restaurants. The prices are too high. The service is slow. The food isn’t right. Yet, restaurants are still packed every night. Maybe we are expecting things to be perfect and they won’t be, so we complain.

 

When you involve others, it’s nearly impossible to make everyone happy. This is what happens in church services. The temperature of the auditorium can never please everyone. Can’t happen. The selection of songs cannot please everyone. Even the sermon subject doesn’t please everyone.

Suggestions are not the same as complaints. Suggestions are ideas. Suggestions can be positive and helpful. Complaints run negative. Complaints tend to point fingers. It did in our passage. Someone was neglecting the Hellenistic Jews. Shame on them. Complaints can become ugly very quickly.

Second, complaints need to be looked into. To ignore a complaint can be insulting. It says, you don’t matter and we do not care about you. Some complaints are legitimate and some adjustments need to be made. Some are not. For instance, during a church service the thermostat cannot be constantly lowered and raised to please everyone. This is why in most church buildings and office buildings there is a plastic locked case around the thermostat that keeps folks from adjusting the temperature. Some complain not knowing that things have already been looked into and changes are coming. Some complaints are selfish and not considerate of others and nothing will be done. In our passage, the apostles looked into the matter.

 Third, when necessary and helpful, changes need to be made. Our verse shows the solution to the neglected Hellenistic widows. Seven godly men were chosen by the church to take care of them. Their names reveal that they are a mixture of Hebrews and Hellenized. There is a balance and accountable among them. Nothing is said about this matter again in the New Testament. The problem was taken care of. The apostles felt that this was a matter that needed to be addressed. So, it was.

  Fourth, the complaints were taken to the right sources. Those complaining didn’t air their grievances on Facebooks, the gossip line, nor did they threaten to leave if they did not get their way. There are proper channels, as well as proper attitudes and proper ways to express complaints. This may have been a simple mistake. We can get ourselves all worked up about things and assume and assign false motives when none of that is true.

  Fifth, God expects us to be team players. The New Testament word is  “subject to one another.” That is not just something wives are to their husbands, but all Christians are to each other. It’s the only way a church can operate and move forward. Not everyone will get their way. You may have done things differently. But to blow a gasket, and create more problems because things were not the way you wanted them, may reveal a much greater problem: YOU. It may illustrate that you are not a team player. That you go along as long as everyone does what you want. The moment that doesn’t happen, you threaten to leave. Wrong. Wrong spirit. Wrong attitude. Wrong decision.

 

We need a big dose of patience and understanding. We are not all the same. We are not all at the same place spiritually. We all have our own experiences, baggage and backgrounds. Put all of us together, and it could be a real mess. What works is Jesus. What works is the mindset that we want to be like Jesus. Patience, love, compassion and growth allows us to gel together. What kills most churches is selfishness. That’s the source of many complaints. That’s the stopper of most ideas.

 

This problem in Acts 6 was no longer a problem. They moved on and continued to grow as the Lord wanted them to. Some churches can’t do that. The problem cripples them. The problem consumes them. The problem destroys them. The problem was greater than they were.

Your spirit, attitude, faith and willingness to work with others is a huge part in whether or not the complaints get the best the church. It’s not just the leaders problems to be solved. These things involve all of us. Acts 6 worked because the brethren had the mind to make it work. Love was triumphant. Christ prevailed. That’s the secret.

Hope this helps,

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 1045

Jump Start # 1045

1 John 4:8 “The one who does not love does not know God, for God is love.”

  God is love. God loves. God so loved the world. God loves us while we were yet sinners. God’s love is not an emotion or feeling that can change on a whim. God’s love is a choice that is demonstrated by actions. We know God loves because He not only tells us, but because He sent Jesus to Calvary to save us. The foundation of the Bible is that God loves.

Throughout the countryside you’ll see spray painted on overpasses and signs in the field declaring that God loves. Those are great reminders. It seems that many have misunderstood, especially these days, what God’s love is all about. God’s love has become another expression for tolerance, especially of things that most people, including God, would not approve of. It is hard for some to get the thought that God can love and still be disappointed and even disapprove of a choice that we make. Folks defend all kinds of behavior under the banner, “God loves.” For them, that means, it doesn’t matter what I do because God loves. This is an old, old misunderstanding of love that continues to find new ways of going forward. The Beatles sang, “All you need is love.” Bert Bacharach sang, “What the world needs now, is love sweet love.” Just love. God loves.

 

Recently, there has been several in the news who have proudly announced their choice to be homosexual. They are seen as heroes because they came forward. Some see this as a parallel to the Civil Rights issues of the 1960’s. To oppose homosexuality is to be branded a bigot and a homophobic. On numerous blogs, the common defense to homosexuality is that God loves. Those two words, “God loves,” is supposed to end the discussion. Those two words are meant to imply that God approves and more so, God is happy with the choices they have made. God loves.

 

This shallow thinking is so prevalent in mainstream that it has influenced many churches. Far too many will not take a stand against sin because as you know, “God loves.”

 

God loves, what does that mean:

1. It is possible for God to love someone and still recognize that they have sinned against Him. Love doesn’t evaporate sin. Love isn’t blind. Consider the role of a parent. A parent loves their child. However, that child can do things that makes the parent very upset and even worthy of punishment. A parent told me about sending his son outside to play. After a while the child came in with paint all over his hands and clothes. The dad asked what happened. The child proudly announced that he had painted dad’s car, and boy, he had. Dad was furious. Did dad still love the child? Of course. Did that love imply that painting dad’s car is just fine and while you’re at it son, go paint the neighbor’s car. No. The behavior was wrong. Discipline and instruction was needed. Dad never stopped loving the child. The Bible says that all have sinned. For God to make that declaration did that mean He stopped loving us. No. God can love us and be angry with us at the same time. It’s not one or the other. The righteousness and holiness of God demands that we be accountable to Him. God can love even though He must punish. Here is a thought that is off the charts for most, God can love even though some will be sent to Hell. God’s patience, God’s message, God’s Son are numerous ways that God tries to save us. However, if a person is determined to ignore God, do whatever they want, and assume because God loves them, He can’t touch them, they will find out how wrong that is. God will love those who are in Hell. God doesn’t love sin.

 

2. Another thought, God loves us, even when we are wrong. This is what is difficult for us to grasp about love. We tend to think that God loves the person who gets up on Sunday morning and goes to church more than the person who stays in bed. We tend to think that God loves the person who prays more than the person who doesn’t pray. We tend to think, if I only start doing better, God will love me. He already does. He loves everyone. You can’t win God’s love, because He already loves you. He loves the sinner and the saint. He loves everyone.

 

3. God loves us and we love God by obeying Him. John says that often. Twice in his gospel, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments,” and several times in his first epistle. God loves us, do we love Him? If we do things that He doesn’t like, we show that we do not love Him. Too many believe in a one sided relationship. God loves me, yet I get to do whatever I want. God loves me, and I don’t have to worship Him. God loves me, and I do not have to obey Him. Where does that lopsided theology come from? Try that in a marriage. The wife loves the husband, but he gets to live like he’s single. The wife loves the husband and he gets to ignore her, avoid her and do what he wants. That marriage won’t last. Relationships are built upon both parties loving and exchanging and pleasing the other. Homosexuality doesn’t please God. Abuse doesn’t please God. Arrogance doesn’t please God. Misquoting the Bible doesn’t please God. Sure God loves us, but do we love Him?

 

So the next time someone proudly states, “God loves,” maybe you ought to respond with, “Do you love Him?” God has proven His love to us. It’s time we do the same in return.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 1044

Jump Start # 1044

Galatians 4:19 My children, with whom I am again in labor until Christ is formed in you

   Paul’s words to the Galatians demonstrate his deep love, concern and goal for them. Paul wanted the best for them. He wasn’t sitting on the sidelines, hoping that they would get their act together, he was immensely involved with them.

Consider three expressions from this verse.

First, Paul refers to the brethren as, “my children.” That term of affection and endearment, shows how Paul felt for them. They were more than the brethren. It was more than the church. It was much more than people. These were his children. In some ways, he felt that way because he first brought the gospel to them and saw their conversions to Christ. He was the one that got things going. But it went beyond that. My children—every parent understands that expression. You’ll fight tooth and nail for your kids. You are their biggest fan, greatest cheerleader and also the won most likely to thump them when they want to be lazy or do wrong. Your children. You love them, support them, defend them, and help them. The things we do for our children. I’ve had to leave the office to run home and then to the school because they forgot a book, or their lunch money, or a permission slip. When they were scared at night, they climbed into bed. In the middle of the night, when they were sick, it was the parent who takes care of them. We washed their clothes, bandaged their knees, kissed their cheeks, and saw them grow up before our eyes. We cheered when they hit the baseball, applauded the loudest when they had a role in the school play, and got misty eyed when they walked across the stage to get their diplomas. Our children. Their pictures hang on our walls and their memories are stored in our hearts. We love our children. This is how Paul felt about the Galatians. Sometimes, often times, this feeling is missing among brethren. There can be a coldness, a competition and distance between them. Fellowship is meaningless because there is no love. Paul loved those Galatian brethren. This feeling led to our next expression.

 

Second, “with whom I am again in labor.” Labor brings the idea of work. Labor can be your job, cleaning out the garage on a Saturday, or a young mother giving birth. It’s all work. There is pain involved. Paul’s laboring over his children involved spiritual teaching, guidance and instructing. The process of spiritual growth means teaching and teaching God’s word. New folks need to learn the way of Christ. There are always questions that come up. There are situations which can try even the seasoned veteran. Preaching and teaching—that’s what Paul was doing. That is the backbone of a strong church. It’s not get togethers. It’s not eating. It’s the teaching of God’s word that builds churches. And folks, that’s labor in Paul’s words. It is work. The old cliché that preachers only work on Sundays, not only is worn out from use, but it is insulting to every preacher who is doing his best. I was asked recently how many hours a week I work. I have no idea. It starts early on Sunday morning and goes all week until late on Saturday night. My work consumes me all the time. I think about it. I work hard at it. There is no letting up on the accelerator. My wife was advising a young preacher’s wife recently. She said, “He’s married to his work. I’m his second wife.” I felt terrible about that, but she understands how I work. Now, some preachers may be lazy. Shame on them. Some may only work on Sunday and the rest of the week they play around. This is not Paul. He’s laboring. There are classes and people to be taught all the time. That takes preparation, energy and time. There are sermons. There are things to be written. All of these take forethought, preparation, time and energy. Brethren would do well to see what their preacher does in a week. Behind the pulpit on Sunday morning is just a small part, and to me the easiest part of the work. There is so much more. Shame on us for thinking, he’s not doing anything during the week, so call him up when you need a ride to the airport, or you need an extra hand in some project. They wouldn’t call a school teacher, because he’s at work. They wouldn’t call the nurse, because of work. But on a Tuesday afternoon, hey, the preacher isn’t doing anything. Really? He should be. He ought to be laboring hard for the God he loves.

 

Third, Paul’s goal and purpose in working hard was to get Christ formed in them. What a powerful expression. Christ in you. Christ formed in you. That would certainly make a difference. Image a person’s attitude, if Christ was formed in them. With Christ formed in a person, compassion, forgiveness and grace would be common characteristics. Many of the problems we have within a congregation would go away if Christ was formed in us. What happens is that we get upset with one another. We say things. We imagine things. We get jealous, mad, short tempered. We forget Christ and think about self. Ugliness rises to the surface and then someone gets the wrath from us. Where is Christ in us?

 

How does Christ get formed in us? Through the labors of teaching, learning, and preaching. That’s the process. So, if I skip out on church, don’t read my Bible much, just hang around the sidelines of spiritual values, it shouldn’t be surprising that Christ isn’t seen in me. Paul was working hard to turn the Galatians.

 

One final thought, it is possible for Christ to be formed in you. What a wonderful thought that is. Some old cranky guy can actually change and have Christ formed in him. Some uppity person can change and have Christ formed in them. Someone who has addictions, someone who is selfish, someone who is very worldly—they can all change and have Christ formed in them.

 

Often in Bible classes, the discussion of the indwelling of the Holy Spirit gets discussed front ways, side ways and back ways. We talk about it, analyze it and discuss it, all the while forgetting that Christ ought to be formed in us. Christ in us. He is not housed in a book, a building or a museum. He wants to be formed in our hearts. The indwelling of Christ.

 

That’s what Paul was working on. He was working hard on that. Bless those godly men who are trying to do the same today. Christ formed in us. Thinking like Christ. Seeing things as Christ would see things. Working like Christ. Loving like Christ. Forgiving like Christ.

 

That’s the goal. How are you doing with it?

 

Roger