Jump Start # 4057
Acts 13:36 For David, after he had served his own generation by the will of God, fell on sleep, and was laid unto his fathers, and saw corruption:
Word reached me about another preacher. He had heard about my upcoming retirement from local work and was concerned. I’m amazed that any preachers would think much about me. Busy as we are in the kingdom, the welfare of my future plans shouldn’t even touch anyone’s radar. It seems that he was concerned what people might suspect about me. Is he ill? Was he forced out? And, then he was concerned that my name would drop off the map. Since churches hear that you are retired, they will conclude that you will not preach any more. And, with that, he said about me, he’ll soon be forgotten.
Just encouraging words that one wants to hear! But, our passage came to the forefront of all of this. It’s not about me. I’m just one tool in God’s amazing tool box. I’ll do what I can the best I can. The focus has to be serving God in this generation. Go back just two generations, my grandfather’s time. There are a handful of preachers a few have heard of, but most are forgotten. That’s just the way it is supposed to be. I do not give that any thought. I don’t want God to be forgotten. It is God that we must put before the people.
In a recent men’s class I was teaching, we brought out the differences between men and women. Men generally get their self worth through achievements, work driven, and being problem solvers. Women tend to be relationship oriented. This is why for many men, after retiring they feel lost and empty. Work provided a sense of value and need. Rather than retiring from work, one needs to look at opening new doors of opportunities. Be it volunteering, working more in the kingdom, developing new interests, the sudden drop in activity and social isolation can be catastrophic for many retired men.
Finding a purpose is important. Just sitting in a chair watching TV all day long isn’t the life that God wants you to live. Focus upon the “older men” passages found in Titus and 1 John.
Here are a few suggestions:
- Start a morning breakfast club with the men in the congregation. Get to know one another and be there for each other.
- Mentor the younger men. Share your wisdom and experience with others.
- Spend time with the preacher and see where you can help out.
- Be the one who is going to the hospital to sit with families, take food to others, sending texts of encouragement.
- Begin a men’s Bible study that includes other retirees from other congregations.
It would do good for shepherds in the congregation to spend a little time with the retired men in the congregation. Some are trying to navigate through this new season and don’t know what to do. Help them. Give them some attention.
We preachers who often focus upon the younger people need to offer some sermons directed to our senior saints. You don’t want them to feel forgotten or no longer needed. The final seasons of their lives presents some special challenges. Help them spiritually to see what God expects of them and how God can help them.
The greatest compliment is that Heaven will never forget us. There are very few saints that we could name from the 1200s. Yet, God knows them. He knows their story. He knows what they went through. Beyond our grandchildren, we may all be forgotten in time. That’s ok. We work hard now. We plant the banner of Christ deep in the soil so others can see it. We lift up others to stand upon our shoulders. In time, they will do the same.
You may turn to new chapters in your life’s story, but don’t stop until the Lord stops you.
Roger
