Jump Start # 4154
Romans 14:19 “So then we pursue the things which make for peace and the building up of one another.”
Throwback Thursday: an article written from the past
Church Fightin’
A cartoon showed two boys walking down the street together. One said, “So, when we get home, d’ya want to play church?” He continued, “I’ll be the preacher, and you can be the deacon. Bobby can play too, if he wants.” The other boy added, “Yeah…he can be the one that gets mad and starts his own church.”
Why is it that some congregations seem to fight so much? You hear of brethren getting mad at each other. Accusations are made. Services end with shouts and finger pointing. Men boil in their anger. Women cry. Kids are confused. Gossip fills the telephone lines. People start lining up which side of the fight they are on. And before too long, another congregation starts. Those that left, claim it is a faithful congregation being established. Those that stayed, claim it was a church split and that they are the faithful. Certain things happen in just about every church fight.
In Church Fights…
- The work of converting the lost stops. Everyone is too caught up in the church problems.
- Brethren who once pooled their money, their voices and their hearts together to make a difference, now can’t stand each other. All is forgotten.
- Visitors are ignored during church fights.
- Children are innocent victims in church fights. They see first hand how unChristian some Christians are. Their image of Christianity is tarnished and often ruined by those who are bent on fighting.
- Twenty-five years of preaching can be ruined in one good church fight
Why are church fights so common? Let’s look into a few reasons why.
- Different attitudes about the truth. In a congregation there is always a mixture of attitudes, opinions, knowledge and faith. Some are serious about the Lord and others are playing church. Some are consistent in their beliefs and practices and others are inconsistent. In such a mixture, friction will arise. When some want change even at the cost of the convictions of others and the result is a direction that leads away from the Bible pattern, a fight will take place. This does not call for ungodliness, name calling, shouting, or hot heads. Paul was “set for the defense of the gospel,” and so should all Christians (Phil. 1:7). A line must be drawn in the sand where Christ has drawn it, and all brethren make their stand, either with Christ or against Him.
- Pride, jealously and a heart that is not willing to submit to others will provoke church fights. God wants us to get along. We cannot have things OUR way. This is not OUR church – it is God’s. Peace is destroyed by stubborn hearts that will not bend for others. God wants us to submit first to Him and then to each other (Eph. 5:21). Selfishness and unity do not go together.
Church fights cease when brethren are set on following the Lord in all things and maintaining a heart and attitude like Jesus had.
Roger
April, 2002
