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Jump Start # 1146

Jump Start # 1146

NOTE: I apologize for the delay in sending out this Jump Start. The internet server in my area is down and I had to send this from another location.

Luke 18:1 “Now He was telling them a parable to show that at all times they ought to pray and not to lose heart.”

 

This chapter of Luke contains two back to back parables about prayer. The first parable, the persistent widow, emphasizes faith and “continually coming” to God in prayer. The second parable, the two men who went to the temple to pray, shows the importance of humility and attitude in prayer.

God wants us to pray. We must pray right. Prayer is not a place to try to impress God. It’s not bragging time. Nor is God to be viewed as the magical genie in the sky who comes at our every beckoning. God isn’t working for us, it’s the other way around.

Our verse today, sets the tone for why Jesus told these two parables. It explains the situation. Pray at all times and do not lose heart. The expression “lose heart,” is where we get the idea of discouragement. We say, ‘Our hearts are not in it.’ When the spies reported back to Israel about the promise land, ten of the spies had a negative and scary report. The text states that the hearts of Israel “melted.”  Other expressions, “I’m sick in heart,” “I don’t feel like it,” “I don’t have the heart to go on,” all reflect the idea of discouragement. The very word, ‘discouragement,’ reflects a lack of ‘courage,’ thus, dis-courage.

 

It’s easy to see discouraged folks. They look tired and beat up. They are weary on the inside. Passion is missing. The weary mom is so tired of messes and fussing. She’d like a break but that won’t happen. The discouraged worker shows up closer and closer to starting time. He doesn’t want to be there. He works like a zombie longing to find another job but he can’t. The discouraged church member starts skipping services, and all he sees is problems. He sees cliques. He sees this isn’t being done and that isn’t being done. Deep inside of him, he is ready to toss in the towel and quit. The same feeling happens in some marriages. One mate feels that the other is ignoring them and that they are living separate lives. Their relationship is like ships passing each other at sea, going different directions to different destinations.

 

Discouragement leads to bitterness and depression. Things do not get better, they get worse. I’ve found that most people do not stay discouraged. They opt to make changes. Some of them are radical and the wrong choices, such as the mother who abandons her family, or the guy who simply quits his job and he has nothing now, or the marriage partner that leaves a rambling note and doesn’t return in the evening or the church member who just stops coming. Discouragement is misery. Most folks don’t stay miserable. They will seek solutions, often, wrong solutions. They toss aside all they know and believe in, just to find peace and happiness. Discouraged preachers are a mess to listen to. Often instead of preaching, they whine. The ‘woe is me,’ club is a sad club to belong to.

 

This passage is God’s antidote for discouragement. It is to take place before discouragement sets in. It is a pattern and a way of life. It’s all about praying to God. At all times we ought to pray. Prayer always fits in. There may be some occasions where it is not appropriate to burst out in a song. You certainly can’t preach everywhere. But pray, absolutely. You can pray without even opening your mouth. You can pray out loud or silently. You can pray in emergency rooms, funeral homes, in the car, at work, in school. The court system may have removed public prayers from school, but they haven’t removed prayers all together. Teachers and students ought to and are praying each day. There is an old saying, “As long as there are tests in school, there will always be prayer.” I well remember those days.

 

Praying helps keep the heart strong. Praying drives away the discouragement. The answer for that weary mom is prayer. The discouraged worker needs to pray. The church member who is starting to drift needs to pray. Pray about the situation. Pray that God will open your eyes to see things. Count your blessings and be thankful that you have someone who can do something. Pray for lessons learned. Pray for patience.

 

What this does is invite God into our lives. We do not struggle alone. That is one of the greatest factors that lead to discouragement, feeling that you are in this all by yourself. Sometimes the discouragement is intensified because others ought to be helping but they are not. That discouraged mom feels more bitter because her husband won’t help out with the kids or the house. He sits watching sports each night oblivious to all the things he could do to help out. She’s alone in this journey and that makes her feel especially discouraged. Invite God into the situation. Pray about things.

 

Prayer not only invites God in to your world, but it opens the door for the goodness and the greatness that is available through God. God can do what no one else can. Praying can open our eyes and make us see a new perspective about things. Prayer can help us count our blessings and be thankful. The weary mom, after praying, can’t catch her breath and be thankful that she has children. There are many who do not. She can be thankful that her children are healthy, many are not. Praying has a way of changing how we see things. It gets the “woe is me,” out of us.

 

I particularly like the expression in our verse, “at all times” pray. All times. Good times and bad times. Day time and night time. When I really need God and when things are going well. When I’m home and when I’m on the road. Pray in worship and pray when alone. All times. I think if we applied the “all times” more times, we’d find ourselves less discouraged and in less trouble. It’s hard to be praying and doing wrong at the same time. They are opposites and either you’ll stop the wrong and pray more or you’ll stop the praying and do more wrong.

 

It’s easiest to pray when times are bad. Wars bring out all kinds of prayers. An old expression from WW II is that there are no atheists in foxholes. Economic hard times brings out prayers. Droughts bring out prayers. Sickness, death, trouble, those are the times folks pray. But all times also includes “good times.” Times when things are up. Health is good. Job is loved and profitable. Kids are doing well. Church is awesome. Good times. Happy times. Those too, are praying times.

 

Don’t be eaten up with discouragement. Be praying. Don’t throw in the towel. Be praying. Be thanking God. Be seeking God. Be humble before God. All times, that includes today.

 

Roger

 

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Jump Start # 65

Jump Start # 65

Luke 18:1 “Now He was telling them a parable to show that at all times they ought to pray and not to lose heart.”

  One of the fascinating things we learn about Jesus is that He is always concerned about us, especially our hearts. Jesus did not want the disciples to ‘lose heart.’ That is the very expression from which we get our word “discouraged.” Jesus didn’t want them to become discouraged.  At another time, Jesus said, “Do not let your heart be troubled” (Jn 14:1). Losing heart…troubled heart, they both represent heart trouble. That expression, ’heart trouble,’ is scary, whether it comes from the doctor or from Jesus.

  When our ‘hearts’ are not into something, we don’t give full attention to it. We do try very hard when our hearts don’t feel like it. I have gone to some classical concerts to please my wife but to be honest my heart wasn’t in it. If she wasn’t going, I definitely wouldn’t have gone. I didn’t understand the music. The pieces seemed to last forever. You can’t eat popcorn during a classical concert so I wasn’t a happy camper. But on the other hand, I have sat through concerts where my son sang classical pieces in choir and was thrilled. I didn’t know what language he was singing or what the piece was about, but my heart was in it because he was a part of it. Amazing how that works!  

  Discouragement is a real problem. It drains the life out of a marriage, it is death to a church. People don’t stay discouraged long. They will leave a marriage, they will “quit” church to find an end to being discouraged. Discouraged folks are not happy people. There are many reasons we get discouraged. The way others act can make us discouraged. This is what happens in marriage. The discouraged is not pleased with the way their mate is behaving. We can be discouraged with out of touch politicians, weird neighbors, lazy co-workers, demanding bosses, nosy church members and grown kids that don’t act grown up.

Discouragement is miserable. The discouraged just want to quit.

  The solution that Jesus offers is prayer. The passage says, “at all times they ought to pray.” Prayer helps. It’s not psychology here. It’s not merely talking through your problems. It is trusting in God who is larger than your problems. It is bringing God into the issue. God who can do things beyond us. God who is bigger than we are.

  Does this mean, if I have a problem or am discouraged, all I do is pray, and all those bad things will go away? No. That would be too easy. Prayer lifts our eyes. Prayer adds the spiritual. Prayer realizes that God has plans. The very thing that discourages a person may well remain there after they have prayed. What changes is how they view the problem and how they will allow the problem to affect them. Instead of God working on the problem, it may be that God needs to work on us. Instead of removing the problem, God may need to open our eyes, strengthen our backs and change our attitudes. Prayer works. Peter said, “casting all your anxiety upon Him because He cares for you” (1 Pet 5:7).

  Does Jesus care? The discouraged doubt that. The faithful know. God encourages. He does so through His word. He encourages by the people he brings into our life. Paul knew that when Titus came. Paul was depressed. God encouraged him by sending Titus. Marvelous how those things work. Church services can have the same positive effect.

  Don’t lose your heart! Find it. Keep it. Strengthen it. Prayer is the answer. We sing, “did you think to pray?” That’s what Jesus asks. Spend a few moments with God in prayer. Ask Him to help you not lose your heart! You’ll be glad you did!

 Roger